Great idea. However, I am deeply involved in my church, and I know that it would not be a secret for very long. Plus I live in a small community.
I'm hoping FR counselling will be enough. 8^)
I won't rule it out all togather though. Thanks.
Ok now there is the problem. You may not mean it that way but you are saying that your pride in having a perfect facade is more important then your marriage.
Your wife and kids are less important then other people opinion. And you can bet that they know it.
Plus I live in a small community.
Then drive somewhere else.
OK,
here are some questions for you...
What is your wife's favorite color?
How does she like her coffee in the morning?
What is the name of her best friend?
What is her greatest dream or desire?
Where does buy her clothes?
What is the name of her favorite movie?
What is her favorite kind of date/outing?
What is her favorite gift from you?
What would she want to change about herself if she could?
What would she want to change about you?
Granted, some are no brainers, but the more you go ?? to, the more you need counseling.