Thank you for all your responses. I few good smacks upside my selfish ego is starting to clear some cobwebs.
A few posts/mail that mentioned the death of a loved one, makes me realize how short sighted I can be. My pain is NOTHING compared to theirs. Tunnel vision makes one think their problems are greater then they really are.
I have gotten alot of good advice, and I will begin to implement operation "Restore Relationship" ASAP.
Thanks again for the wake up.
Sincerely