[Jeffery T.]

Ok, I hate to play the race card, but why dont white men like their women to have curves. Now I'm not talking about being overweight, but just a nice shapely figure. Or am I wrong on this one? Let me know. I'm just curious.

[colorcountry]

Ok, I hate to play the race card, but why dont white men like their women to have curves. Now I'm not talking about being overweight, but just a nice shapely figure. Or am I wrong on this one? Let me know. I'm just curious.

Well if you're asking me personally...plenty of men, of all colors, have liked my curves. It's the freakin white women that have the weight hang-up.

[Yaelle]

I'd like to know the same! Maybe white men are more influenced by the media than others. But the models are mostly selected by gay men to wear their designer clothes because they are as thin as hangers and make the clothes look good.

Maybe black and Hispanic guys are smarter and know that girls who love to eat also love other things. Or else maybe they just don't like bruises after a hug?

If Ann really reads this thread, I just want to say:

Ann, if that is just how you are built, or maybe you had a bout of stomach virus and are a little underweight, ignore all this.

However, if you are avoiding food for the sake of your looks, please, please stop. It can be life-threatening.

[blaquebyrd]

"Ok, I hate to play the race card, but why dont white men like their women to have curves."

I've often wondered the same thing myself. I mean if I had to chose between Monica Lewinsky and Laura Flynn Boyle I'd have to go with Monica if for no other reason she looks like a female. Let's be honest some of these skeletal walking sticks look like malnourished transvestites.

[Mamzelle]

re: but why dont white men like their women to have curves.)))

Wonder this, myself. Maybe it's because thin women look more like boys...?