Posted on 09/03/2026 5:18:56 PM PDT by nickcarraway
Freddie Mercury’s closest friend Mary Austin discussed the moment she became certain the Queen star was gay – and it took place before the couple talked about it.
They’d been living together for four years when Mercury told Austin he had something to say. But in a new interview with the Guardian, she revealed she’d known for some time.
Explaining why she’d fallen for him in the first place, she said: “He was different from the others. He was more creative. He was just more interesting.
“Like, he’d go to see the film Cabaret over and over again. I loved listening to him explain why he enjoyed it so much. I enjoyed the journey around his mind. It was like reading a book. You were always on this journey with him.”
Recalling the moment they spoke about his sexuality, she recalled: “He struggled to get the words out. He said, ‘I think I’m bisexual.’ I said ‘No, Freddie, I think you’re gay.’” He didn’t argue.”
Asked if it had been an upsetting moment, Austin replied: “No – it was a huge relief, because I wasn’t sure whether we were traveling in the same direction any more.
“Some time earlier I saw a dress and thought, ‘That would be a really nice wedding dress.’ I asked Freddie, ‘Is it worth me buying it?’ And he looked at me and shook his head. So I knew from there on.”
The Worst Thing Freddie Mercury Ever Said to Mary Austin
Austin was happy to change her status with respect to Mercury, becoming his personal assistant instead of his girlfriend. “We became better friends and it became a better relationship,” she said. “I was six-and-a-half stone; I was really stressed. And suddenly I’m not stressed any more.”
Even though she was technically Mercury’s employee, she said he never treated her like that. “[B]ut if he had treated me as an employee I would have sucked it up, because I’d know it’s because he’s in a foul mood or annoyed with someone or maybe I’d done something and not realized. We’d be honest with each other.“
Recalling what she described as the worst thing Mercury ever said to her, she reported: He once told me I was inefficient, and I totally agreed.”
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She inherited his fortune.
He had nobody. Sad.
Weirdness aside... that guy could sing! So talented.
The moment I knew he was gay was when I saw him and heard him speak. I guess my gaydar is better than hers.
Who didn’t know after hearing Killer Queen the first time?
I knew the group was gay from the get-go because of its name.
The rest are straight.
Just like with Rob Halford.
Who didn’t know after seeing Judas Priest for the first time?
But nobody cared, even after he finally did come out.
Queen
well, DUH !
Weren’t the other member’s straight.
Sad? Why? It was his choice.
Story I heard is he was sexually abused when he was in middle school. That probably had a lot to do with it.
This is all a bunch of hooey. He was gay from the get-go. And it was easy enough to see for anybody. As far as some woman living with him for years before she figured it out? That’s just plain insulting.
He got AIDS from years of grossly promiscuous sex with Anonymous men.
I heard all this misdirection and Bs from my late gay younger brother.
He was with somebody his last years.
Did people think Peter Gabriel was gay when he dressed up as a flower and pranced around on stage with Genesis?
Did people think Peter Gabriel was gay when he dressed up as a flower and pranced around on stage with Genesis?
A flower?
Heard what was misdirection and BS?
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