So you are shocked the men and women that need to be prepared daily to KILL PEOPLE would run around in the underwear, or enjoy a drink?
By the way, Footloose Boy, I hugged my brother good bye as he was getting ready for his deployment to Iraq-don't tell me what it's like to be in a military family-my brother didn't get his Captains bars by being some salivating idiot who defends bad behavior amoung the men and women that he leads every day.
What if I told you I have friends in Iraq too?
What if I told you they have the complete opposte view that you or your relation does on this subject (that they deserve to blow off some steam at a party -- yes *gasp* that might even mean having sex with a female at a 'party')
See -- I fully respect the sacrifice those that you know are willing to make -- BUT just because you are in that situaion hardly makes you some kind of 'definitive' atuthority.
Yes, especially people who have been trained to kill people. They need to have more self-control than anyone else.