Please don't take this as shouting but one of the bizarre ritual around here seem to be thinking God works in all sorts of different ways in all sorts of different circumstances to save individuals. God has special ways in saving children, saving people on desert islands, saving people in the Old Testaments and now making special exceptions when they're not baptized although, you say, it's required. Quite frankly I grow dizzy trying to keep straight the salvation methods of the Arminians.
If God does it for one, He does it for all. This includes those who are baptized and those who are not. God is consistent in His salvation plan and method. God shows no partiality.
First of all, I am not Arminian. I claim no name but Christian. Second, I am not making special exceptions, I am just saying that it is up to God to decide when someone is unable to fulfill his commandments. You said God is consistent in His salvation plan and method, that is exactly what I am saying. He is consistent, and to obey the Gospel, that includes being baptized for the remission of sins.