[fortheDeclaration]

Why does one Christian choose to grow up and others never do? The issue is always what you desire, those who come to Christ desire the truth and those who don't, don't That's no answer. Why does one man DESIRE the truth and another not? What is the DIFFERENCE in the two men???

What is the difference between Christians?

Why do some grow and other do not?

[Dr. Eckleburg]

Is one smarter, stronger, more intelligent, more pious, richer, etc. than the other?

Something inherently inside them has to account for the difference between the two men's free will choices.

What is it?

Why did you, ftd, use your free will to "open the door" to Christ when your neighbor used his free will to ignore His "knocking?"