Posted on 02/23/2002 6:23:46 PM PST by Hillary's Lovely Legs
Do you mean that he was dating his second wife while married to the first wife and now cheating with the second wife with the ' girl on the side?'
I here you...
If you decide to stay, you should get a dog if you don't have one. Not a little yippy thing but a big lovable, hairy mut!! She might get b*tchy a lot, but he'll ALWAYS wag his tail and be happy to see you! As long as you don't have allergies, a dog will lift your spirits up.
Seems Cardinal Ratzinger was banned from FR prior to his elevation to Pope. Heh.
How does one not take it personally when they are one of these women? If the heart doesn't have a say in the biology of things it shows. So what is the older woman to do, settle for lesser than or leave the planet? And, the hotty trotty ones will soon walk in the same shoes, but that does nothing for the woman already in that zone. It hurts to not feel appeciated, accepted, loved, or unwanted because their skin has begin to sag. It is frustrating because they can not reverse anything but watch helplessly on the side lines OR they can KNOW their own self worth and not waste precious time on such crap in the first place. YUP, you got it. I am of that age bracket.
I’m sure what I have to say will cause a bit of controversy. But I think many (not all) relationships would be better if it were acceptable for men to have a wife AND a “mistress.” I think in general men need more sexual attention or need to boost their ego more than their wives can or will provide them. The reasons given for why men cheat seem to verify this. I also think men may be more capable of loving more than one woman at a time than women are. Perhpas it would make the marriage better if the wife could send the husband away to the mistress every once in a while. And, no, I am not a man wanting two women! I am a woman wanting only one man!
hahaha, I hope you have on your asbestos underwear.
Even after 20 years of marriage, my mother a housewife who had 5 children, would always get cleaned up from her daily cleaning and cooking and caretaking chores and dress better before my father came home from work. She still wanted to remain attractive to him after all those years.
You realize the thread is over 6 years old??
Oh,
and welcome to FR ;)
“Men are afraid of death” (Olynpia Dukakis to Cher in Moonstruck) :-)
On a totally separate note, I would like to say that as a fellow long time Freeper I have always enjoyed your posts, but your screen name still makes me want to throw up a little in my mouth sometimes.
I hope you understand ;)
Freegards
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Sometimes he isn't.
Really.
I get like that when my car’s in the shop.
Where did you find this ancient thread?
ROTFLMAO!!!!
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