[Jonty30]

I agree that there are solid mates, but it is difficult to find them. Even if a woman does all the right things to indicate that she is a solid mate, there is no guarantee that she will be one.

You can only do everything as best you can to weed them out.

[Antoninus]

Even if a woman does all the right things to indicate that she is a solid mate, there is no guarantee that she will be one.

There are no guarantees of anything in life.

The best you can do is to find a woman who agrees with you that marriage is one man, one woman for life, with the purpose of bearing and raising children. If you use those criteria as a baseline, the weeding out process becomes much more straight-forward.