They’re not all fake. A lot of the more or less ‘trad wife’ sites and channels I’ve seen focus on instructing in and popularizing domestic skills. They don’t get on the internet to sensationalize and expose their families’ intimate matters.
There is a difference, in my mind at least, between an "Influencer" and someone who is just teaching you how to do stuff. The first is generally fake because they have to be perfect and no one is. The second will show you the mess or the fact they did not count right and other mess ups that happen. You don't leave thinking that is something I could never do. You leave having learned something. Every ones elses opinion may vary.
And I have to admit the phrase, now apparently a word, "tradwife" makes my neck itch. I am just normal. No need to slap a cutesy label on it.