And the videos showed older men not helping but the younger guys did.
Maybe the older guys have seen it all before & are just not as affected by a womans appearance. But...even older guys should be willing to help(especially) a lady who appears to be needing help. From an older guy.
Many of us older guys have health concerns that we need to consider before risking injury to help a stranger. I have had two major should surgeries, major back surgery, and bi-lateral hip replacements. I am not going to risk injury to help anyone carry anything unless she is height/weight proportionate and wearing a short skirt and top that shows cleavage.