Many men have been browbeaten by our feminine society into subjugating their natural impulses. They are told from the time they are two that their impulses are wrong.
My little six year old grandson still has some Neanderthal in him—when somebody in kindergarten bugs him, he hauls off and punches them. The problem is, he is hitting a bunch of sissies so he never gets put in his place and never learns where he belongs in the pecking order.
I’ve suggested karate lessons so he can get his yayas out and receive many messages about self control.
You are a wise woman.