but the woman were ultra snooty
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I hear ya! But (I’m hopeful) that “snooty” group is about to get a big jolt (awakening?) from us peons.
I did join the Descendants of the Mayflower back in the ‘70s. That’s when I lived in Alaska, when Alaska was still on the wild side, and the main objective of everyone was to have fun and not take yourself too seriously. The meetings of the Alaska Chapter were a ball.
Then I moved to the Lower 48 and was going to hook up with the Chapter in MA near Springfield. OHHHH BOY ... do THEY take themselves seriously! The snootiness was hilarious. “You VILL haf no fun!”
So I’m still a member, but don’t go to meetings.