it’s not always a persons choice, some times it’s God’s will for a person to be without help at times. Some times He wants to get our attention. Some times He wants to use our situation to have an effect on others.
the Bible clearly says some people should remain unmarried. You wanna fault people for doing as the Bible says some should do?
Many marry that should not have. Many(married or not) have kids that they should not have. Lots of people disobey God in many ways.
It’s God’s to sort out who should have stayed single but didnt, or who He WANTED to go through something alone, but they guilted or otherwise managed to talk some one into helping them.
Easy to judge things through your own eyes, but the Bible says His ways are higher than our ways and His thoughts are higher than ours.
we will never really know many things, until maybe when we meet God after we die.
I have a good friend who remained single all his life. We always had deep conversations about science, philosophy, politics, society etc. He is now in a ‘memory care facility’ a thousand miles from me and I cannot contact him nor can anyone else I know he knows.
Wise words!