Selfish people, especially women, don’t give a rats behind. They chase after the lies that they’re somehow going to be happier. Fools.
I am a happily married man. The Mrs is a good woman. But I’ve had friends that have been hurt by delusional women.
No different than men who don’t give a rats behind.
It’s not an affliction that is specific to one sex.
Some men chase the lie that they be happier in an affair and so destroy their marriages, just like some women do.
Some men think women are their for their convenience and pleasure, just like some women do.
Some men are violent control freaks and put their wives in the hospital because of beating them. Women TEND TO control differently.
Both men and women need to grow up and act like responsible adults to make a marriage work. And one sex is not more guilty than the other. BOTH have lost their moorings and need to work to fix things instead of blame shifting all the time.
Many (not all) men in younger generations especially those who experienced the divorce of their own parents or fatherlessness, battle childhood trauma (sometimes severe) and even the most seemingly functional/financially/spiritually sound ones on paper, have hidden addictions — namely to pornography.