Real men, in the modern age, are 6’0 and have Hollywood looks. Lots quality men exist, but they are not 6’0 and Hollywood looks. They are dateless.
It’s “Lots of Fish In the Sea” Syndrome, people think they can always hold out for something better.
Back in our grandparents’ time, people generally grew up and lived in the same town, so you’d better get what you could by the time you graduated high school, or else you would be out of luck.