There is only some sort of inverted logic with such persons.
I have wondered for years why girls who like girls make themselves look like boys. I had a neighbor a while back who was indistinguishable from a boy. My friend did not believe me that she was a she. Everything she did was boy including her having girlfriends. It is idiomatic.
And, if sex with men is repugnant to them, why do their sexual practices include some type of device that is “longer than it is round”?