Sorry about your mom. It’s a shame that you use her as a shield against criticism.
No. I think it’s just classless to use someone’s mother without knowing anything about that person. If your mother was in the hospital dying right now and someone posted that trash to you, what would you think.
If Jim Robinson’s wife had just passed away and you posted something similar to one of his sons, would that be okay with you? What if I said what he did about your wife or daughter? Does that make it okay? I’ll never defend trashy behavior.