I look at it like this.
I declare my independence from you, because you are purposely trying to destroy me.
Done with you. Bye. But if you think you are going to continue to control me despite my leaving you, then you are going to have to come kill me, and believe me when I tell you, I will defend myself.
Choose wisely.
And that’s about it.
That’s about what happened last time. Maybe next time will turn out differently?