He thinks “free sex,” she thinks “free babysitter.” Bad situation.
25+ years ago, I was that boyfriend, to my now wife of 25+ years.
I remind both of you that we, the guys unlike the one in this story, generate exactly zero press, so no one ever hears about us.
We exist in greater numbers than you might imagine.
I inherited 2 when I got married, had one with my wife, and now have 3 grandbabies with another on the way.
Just to balance out the equation a bit.