This is the deal, as told by a 50 year old man, married for 25 years,
Women want a “real” man. They don’t want men who have more product in their bathroom then they do. Women want a man who is confident, has a good sense of humor and knows how to treat a lady. Women want a man who, even if he is not a six figure earner or a Ivy League grad, can still string two coherent sentences together, has a job and is just as mature as he is silly.
In the cities, all bets are off. If you are single and living in the city, chances are you are way too busy with work to settle down into a long term relationship. I know, been there and done that for 10 years. My idea of a relationship was offering her coffee in the morning. If I was offered coffee in the morning I thought I met someone special.
Funny thing is, once I got married, more women came on to me because women who didn’t want a relationship saw a married guy as a non committed hookup. What they didn’t take into consideration was once I got married, I was off the market.
Men who have more product in the bathroom than the woman ? Sorry, I just can’t give up my bar of soap to get clean ...... And for God’s sake, got to have toilet paper.