Please advise then.
If I were in favor of this unconstitutional and illegal grope-and-porn scheme, I’d reply something like this:
You’re taking this too broadly.
When we talk about safety, we mean “safety from attacks”, not prevention of accidents. Sure, the government oversees the safety of aircraft themselves - and of automobiles as well. But the primary responsibility for such things belongs to the airlines and automakers.
We have been threatened and attacked by groups seeking to cause terror and disrupt our ability to carry on as Americans. That is the specific target for our security measures. So your statistics on other dangers are irrelevant to this subject.