[fluffytoo]

"It's what sod would've wanted"

First of all, bwahahahaha!!!!!!

Secondly, there is a lot to be said about the way psychopathic (and other) types manipulate people. Here's one way:

Playing the Servant Role – Covert-aggressives use this tactic to cloak their self-serving agendas in the guise of service to a more noble cause. It's a common tactic but difficult to recognize. By pretending to be working hard on someone else's behalf, covert-aggressives conceal their own ambition, desire for power, and quest for a position of dominance over others.

http://www.rickross.com/reference/brainwashing/brainwashing11.html

"It's what Anna would have wanted."

[TrishaSC]

Bingo. That's him.