Oh please. Are you being sarcastic or just ignorant?
You really think quotes like the following are gracious and not accusatory:
You've got to be kidding me. Someone feeds you a lump of shit, and you swallow it with a smile because he frosted it.
No, I'm a lifelong democrat, and no one's feeding me shit. I decided that one for myself. How ignorant.
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