Hi!
Yeah! I did, twice. FINALLY someone who has actually SEEN the movie.
My husband and i felt much the way you and your wife did.
Here is a link to a fabulous commentary:http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/11102003/
The movie will peak out at $83 million domestic box office and will wind up being the 22nd highest grossing film of 2005.
Moreover, the DVD has been in the #1 spot on amazon for 12 of the last 15 days (it fell to #2 behind Kink Kong for about 3 days). I imagine it will be there for many more days to come!
Incidentally, it is a GREAT movie.