I'm replying to mysel :)
See look what happened to Terri, her hsuband hooked up with other women but remained her husband under the law. He had a conflict of interest and I don't think should have been allowed to be her legal guardian.
I love my husband and he loves me, however I also know my husband needs a woman. he would not be able to handle the lonliness, he just wouldn't. I don't think my husband would make it 15 years without hooking up with somebody else. I'm saying I think I could be terri. I know he loves me 100% now but 15 years later, when he is hooked up with a different woman? Hey people change.
To me best bet is the family lawyer who doesn't probate the will, removes finacial incentive for s/he also.
"He had a conflict of interest"
Her dad had financial problems.
There was money received in the mal-practice suit for Terri's care.
Were he the guardian would there be a conflict of interest?