NO! Actually, I am just the opposite. I don't work well under stress at all! I get disoriented and can't remember things and I get irritable as all get out. What's funny is, I have a sign in my office that says "There is a $5 fine for whining." The guy I was sharing the office with until he transferred told me that if I had to pay that, I'd go broke. LOL! It's because I sit and grumble and talk to the computer, the phone, whatever it is I'm doing, as if the person responsible for my aggravation could actually hear me.
Doesn't sound like you are whinning to me
Sounds to me like you are really trying to help these family but can't due to all the BS in the government with their regulations