Keep hope alive.
Maybe they’ll just freely remove their fingers from the levers of power. Maybe they’ll just release the political prisoners with all good intentions. Maybe they’ll just decide to let go and not have Antifa and BLM burn down some cities to protest the white supremacists taking over.
Keep the hope.
Living somewhere sane (not on the left coast) helps one's outlook. Red state America is still quite different than blue state America. And, most of the major changes that occur end up occurring at the state level.
And, the Supreme Court appears to be on the verge of overturning horrific precedents like Roe. And, red states will, very rapidly, change their laws accordingly if that happens.
The explosion of crime and riots being allowed as a means of political intimidation? Not a problem in red state America.
John Nolte at Breitbart has written several columns about the difference between living in Los Angeles and rural North Carolina and how much better his life in the latter.
Maybe its where you live that is the primary problem.