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Why American men are getting less marriageable
Business Insider ^ | January 2018 | Business Insider

Posted on 09/10/2019 4:19:52 PM PDT by GuavaCheesePuff

If it seems like the number of complaints from your female friends about not being able to find a man is growing, we may finally know why. Somewhere between 1979 and 2008, Americans decided it was much less worth it to get hitched: the share of 25- to 39-year-old women who were currently married fell 10 percent among those with college degrees, 15 percent for those with some college, and a full 20 percent for women with a high-school education or less.

This great American marriage decline—a drop from 72 percent of U.S. adults being wed in 1960 to half in 2014—is usually chalked up to gains in women's rights, the normalization of divorce, and the like. But it also a lot to do with men. Namely, economic forces are making them less appealing partners, and it ties into everything from China to opioids.

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TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Society
KEYWORDS: eloi; feminazism; gender; men; savethemales; smashmonogamy; smashthepatriarchy; women
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To: unixfox
What did that comedian who had been married three times say? Oh, yes, I remember, "I'm never getting married again. I'll just find some woman I can't stand and give her a house."

Married a native of Central Mexico many years ago (many) and love her dearly. She is NOT a liberal, leftist, feminazi and is a wonderful woman. What I saw of American women in college even back then made me sick. What I see now makes me a raving lunatic if I'm around them for very long.

81 posted on 09/10/2019 6:49:12 PM PDT by MeneMeneTekelUpharsin (Freedom is the freedom to discipline yourself so others don't have to do it for you.)
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To: a fool in paradise
Bicycles consider fish a detriment, too.

All that salt water in the chainring and gears.

82 posted on 09/10/2019 6:50:29 PM PDT by grey_whiskers (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change with out notice.)
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To: Caipirabob
Personally I think it time to invest in rope. The people foisting this disaster on our people deserve a traitors fate.

Comment of mine deleted. Let's just say I thought of the old saying, hanging is too good for them.

83 posted on 09/10/2019 6:51:27 PM PDT by grey_whiskers (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change with out notice.)
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To: GaryCrow
It’s women who have become non-marriageable, men are just responding to that.

Very true, but the men have horrific issues as well. The deterioration of values is THE issue. No values. We are headed for destruction, but the vast majority of people simply can not see it coming.

84 posted on 09/10/2019 6:51:42 PM PDT by MeneMeneTekelUpharsin (Freedom is the freedom to discipline yourself so others don't have to do it for you.)
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To: grey_whiskers

Agree thoroughly.


85 posted on 09/10/2019 6:52:30 PM PDT by MeneMeneTekelUpharsin (Freedom is the freedom to discipline yourself so others don't have to do it for you.)
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To: E. Pluribus Unum
Why buy the whole cow...

You know the rest.

...when she's been giving away the best milk for free to dozens of other men over the last 15 years, and only wants you for a quick child and then alimony?

86 posted on 09/10/2019 6:58:07 PM PDT by grey_whiskers (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change with out notice.)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

They did not decide; it was decided for them by the atheistic communists who control education and media - just as it was decided that the following were natural and legitimate, instead of aberrant or delusional:

Homosexuality.
Polyamory.
Transgenderism.
Pedophilia.
Gender Identity.

And just as it was decided for them that the so-called heterosexual, monogamous, patriarchal family unit was neither natural nor legitimate.

Nota Bene:

Monogamy is natural, no matter how much people (including on this forum) seek to justify promiscuity.

Monogamy = Mono + Gamete = One Haploid Male (X or Y) Sperm + One Haploid Female (X) Ovum = One Diploid Zygote.

A woman could have sexual intercourse with fifty men in one night (assuming she had the requisite physical fitness and stamina). If she conceived one child from that orgy, that child would have one father, not fifty.

Children instinctively crave one father and one mother in a stable family unit. The left actively and aggressively seeks to deny them that.


87 posted on 09/10/2019 7:19:20 PM PDT by YogicCowboy ("I am not entirely on anyone's side, because no one is entirely on mine." - J. R. R. Tolkien)
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To: Chickensoup

The article is referring to millennials as a possible reason. But the actual statistics are only charted on the divorce rate by year. It does not include when the marriage took place or how long a couple has been married. .


88 posted on 09/10/2019 7:28:54 PM PDT by HollyB
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

89 posted on 09/10/2019 7:31:26 PM PDT by bankwalker (Immigration without assimilation is an invasion.)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

For both men and women, there are other options and things to do and ways to keep yourself occupied, outside of being married.

50 years ago, life would have been pretty boring if you weren’t married, especially if all of your friends were married, and no longer had the time to hang out with you.

Things are completely different today.


90 posted on 09/10/2019 7:33:15 PM PDT by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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To: aMorePerfectUnion

Sounds beautiful.

Some are meant to be ‘alone’. Some don’t like the commitment.
Personally, I’m that way (as a female). But, in my 5th decade and poor health, I figured that out. I’m the odd ball tho. I know that. He should know that he’s the odd one out as well.


91 posted on 09/10/2019 7:35:33 PM PDT by HollyB
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To: E. Pluribus Unum

“Why buy the whole cow...

You know the rest.”

The rest is that young men are not taught to live the Law of Chastity.


92 posted on 09/10/2019 7:36:54 PM PDT by fproy2222 (MAGA; The United States of American is still the best place to live and it can become better.)
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To: cyclotic
The church doesn’t really seem to do anything to help that.

This is worthy of further study.

93 posted on 09/10/2019 7:39:51 PM PDT by thecodont
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To: MeneMeneTekelUpharsin

Agree. It’s a two way street.

Plus, the discussion of single mothers. I thought life was precious? Or is it? They can’t have it both ways. Sounds like they’d prefer the woman had an abortion to make her more worthy of marriage. Smh


94 posted on 09/10/2019 7:40:56 PM PDT by HollyB
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To: bankwalker

“. it a natural result of the 19th amendment”

It is not just the woman’s falt. We all have had a hand in it.

God put Eve next to Adam as a partner, not a first-mate.
Togeather they were given the responsible to lead and train their family.


95 posted on 09/10/2019 7:53:43 PM PDT by fproy2222 (MAGA; The United States of American is still the best place to live and it can become better.)
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To: southern rock

Where to begin. There’s no upside? I have a constant companion who I love sharing my life with.

Just because you clearly have had bad experiences with women doesn’t mean all of us have.


96 posted on 09/10/2019 7:54:12 PM PDT by bigdaddy45
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To: bankwalker

So you don’t believe women should be able to vote huh? Should they be able to own property? Or enter into contracts?


97 posted on 09/10/2019 7:56:02 PM PDT by bigdaddy45
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

We are just so unmarriageable... not enough money for all those hot models out there that are suffering - hey, but they're body positive! Unless you are an overweight, under 6', balding male...

Click on the image for another ton of fun...

98 posted on 09/10/2019 8:01:48 PM PDT by Bon mots
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To: Maskot

Hot crazy matrix...look it up....


99 posted on 09/10/2019 8:07:04 PM PDT by ripnbang ("An armed man is a citizen, an unarmed man, a subject.")
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To: HollyB

“Plus, the discussion of single mothers. I thought life was precious? Or is it? They can’t have it both ways. Sounds like they’d prefer the woman had an abortion to make her more worthy of marriage. Smh”


No, they should avoid getting pregnant in the first place, there are plenty of ways to avoid that. You actually have to do something to get pregnant, it’s not like you wake up one day with it like catching the flu.


100 posted on 09/10/2019 8:08:42 PM PDT by GaryCrow
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