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How should women respond to men withdrawing from courtship?
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Posted on 11/19/2013 4:37:03 AM PST by ClaytonP

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To: ClaytonP

Slim’s first rule of romance:

“What initially attracts, eventually dismays.”


21 posted on 11/19/2013 6:30:12 AM PST by Tijeras_Slim
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22 posted on 11/19/2013 6:31:13 AM PST by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn.)
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To: muir_redwoods
This graph belongs on this thread. SMV = Sexual Marketplace Value.

From: Here

23 posted on 11/19/2013 6:38:27 AM PST by FreedomPoster (Islam delenda est)
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To: ClaytonP
Good advice for men here ---> Chateau Heartiste
24 posted on 11/19/2013 6:46:03 AM PST by 38special (For real, y'all.)
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To: ClaytonP; 185JHP; 230FMJ; Albion Wilde; Aleighanne; Alexander Rubin; An American In Dairyland; ...
 
For the first part in this series:

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25 posted on 11/19/2013 6:56:26 AM PST by Responsibility2nd (NO LIBS. This Means Liberals and (L)libertarians! Same Thing. NO LIBS!!)
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To: ClaytonP

My father’s rule was ‘three dates’. If after three dates you’re not willing to marry the person (not that you have to get married after three dates, but the direction of the relationship has to be established) then you need to move on to the next person. He felt it wasn’t fair to the man or woman to waste their time with a person who would never be a partner. My mother was 14 when she met my father - who was 16 at the time - they fell in love - got married after their second year of college and loved each other their whole lives...


26 posted on 11/19/2013 7:36:15 AM PST by GOPJ (Was Obama giving nucluear information and equipment to Iran - through Benghazi?)
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To: mad_as_he$$

...and the maternity ward...I hear those chicks put out!


27 posted on 11/19/2013 7:42:08 AM PST by ItsOurTimeNow ("Scheming demons dressed in kingly guise, beating down the multitudes and scoffing at the wise.")
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To: ArtDodger

Well someone has to tell them that they’re going about it all the wrong ways.


28 posted on 11/19/2013 8:00:32 AM PST by Star Traveler (Remember to keep the Messiah of Israel in the One-World Government that we look forward to coming)
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To: ArtDodger
"..Now I ask you old fogies, are you sure you want to offer advice to this generation?"

Sounds like they're in desperate need of some advice, if you ask me...

29 posted on 11/19/2013 8:23:56 AM PST by CatherineofAragon ((Support Christian white males----the architects of the jewel known as Western Civilization.))
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To: CatherineofAragon
If you have kids, you know they don't listen to direct advice. I try to show the way thru what appears to be my own musings and by pointing out the tragedies happening around us. It is paying off. I see lights of understanding come on now and then. It takes time to sink in.
30 posted on 11/19/2013 8:29:31 AM PST by ArtDodger
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To: ArtDodger

The biggest complement I ever had was was hearing my teenage daughter tell my wife she wants a relationship like her parents have. This opened the whole conversation about how young men and women should interact.

There is nothing new under the sun, all of this certainly is not new and we old folks have something to offer. I just wish my parents hand taught me more about relationships when I was young.


31 posted on 11/19/2013 8:38:56 AM PST by dangerdoc (see post #6)
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To: central_va

I’ve got a very nice pontoon boat (24’ Manitou SHP. 41.1 mph top end. Very maneuverable. Two live wells, very comfortable to fish or ski in. All the bells and whistles.) With a very good motor (175 HP Yamaha).

Just don’t have the good woman to ride it with me. :)


32 posted on 11/19/2013 8:47:43 AM PST by John O (God Save America (Please))
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To: ItsOurTimeNow

At least once.


33 posted on 11/19/2013 8:48:40 AM PST by mad_as_he$$
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To: John O

Lose weight and go hunting:-) you eat what you kill. Seriously though, anyone who complains and then asks the audience to explain an incongruent situation plants seeds of doubt as to whether they acknowledge, or even are aware of, the rest of the story. “The truth is out there.”

Seriously, lose 11 pounds, 200 is a tipping point. Price yourself at 199 ...


34 posted on 11/19/2013 8:53:02 AM PST by af_vet_1981 (The bus came by and I got on, That's when it all began,)
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To: GOPJ

Wise rule


35 posted on 11/19/2013 8:55:50 AM PST by af_vet_1981 (The bus came by and I got on, That's when it all began,)
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To: af_vet_1981

Fat and Ugly means “not even in the market”


36 posted on 11/19/2013 8:59:38 AM PST by longtermmemmory (VOTE! http://www.senate.gov and http://www.house.gov)
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To: John O

Well, try the local library committee, volunteer at a school, most teachers are women and a lot are single. Volunteer at a hospital or even a veterinary clinic, again a lot of the other volunteers and paid staff are female. Last, the Appalachian Hiking Club is famous for men meeting lots of women.

You’re a Christian but the venues I’ve mentioned are places good-hearted women cluster. I can’t guarantee a Christian but a good non-Christian shouldn’t be discounted unless that’s a non-starter for you.


37 posted on 11/19/2013 9:07:51 AM PST by muir_redwoods (Don't fire until you see the blue of their helmets)
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To: John O

I’d recommend making looks very much a secondary consideration. The looks will go. The personality you’ll live with (hopefully) for the rest of your life.

I’ve known some nice, pretty women, but not many.


38 posted on 11/19/2013 9:26:23 AM PST by jimt (Fear is the darkroom where negatives are developed.)
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To: longtermmemmory
Fat and Ugly means “not even in the market”

Looks are overrated. By the time you're in your 60's there just isn't much left by the time age, sun, fat, and gravity have taken its toll.

I know people who would qualify that way and after getting to know them better, would not change the way they look for anything.

39 posted on 11/19/2013 9:33:43 AM PST by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of faith....)
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To: mad_as_he$$

Now I know why you’re mad as hell: they have to swear off relationships for the first year. Must be frustrating, huh? If you want to meet alcoholic sluts, head over to College Democrats. You just might want to double-bag it though, if you know what i mean. And leave the lights off. *Shudder*


40 posted on 11/19/2013 9:37:34 AM PST by dangus
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