I thought it was Iraq, but I've been wrong once or twice before. =)
http://lakeshorecountryjournal.com/jimjackson/memorialbbq.html
"When their son Scott died while attending the Special Forces Qualification Course, the Vallelys needed a focus for their grief and sorrow. That focus became the Scott Vallely Soldiers Memorial Fund. The fund started as a way to put to good use the donations that poured in from all over the country after Scott's passing."