You were certainly there when I was attacked. I asked you why much milder things said to your favorites offended you—to the extent that you posted about it—while savage, brutal things said to me and others elicited nothing. Never got a response.
I notice you didn’t post what “names” I called you [I didn’t call you any] and you certainly didn’t quote anything by another poster that cd be characterizes as “shameful”. You changed the subject.
Sorry to hear of your bereavement. I’ve gone through the loss of a spouse. It was rough. I hope things are better now.
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