That is not incompatible behaviour. The way to teach insects how to behave is to kill the ones who do what you don't want them to do.
The ones who survive learn not to do that.
You are evolved. The Rapist is pre-Neanderthal.
Special note to those in therapy. I am not endorsing the killing of therapists. Only the Rapists.
Now if I can only get rid of all these Penguins in trunks and rampaging Huns out of my head.... ;-)