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RABEA — It is early morning at the point of entry where two countries meet – Iraq and Syria. Two men in different uniforms stand near a sand-colored tower. They look off in the distance and wait for signs of activity, anticipating the mass of vehicles and pedestrians who will soon attempt to gain access to one of the neighboring nations.But at this time of day, the only thing crossing the border is the occasional gust of sand carried by the breeze. The two men, an American Soldier and an Iraqi Border Patrol agent, engage in friendly dialogue. Each makes...

BAGHDAD — Soldiers from Multi-National Division met with key community leaders, Iraqi policemen and residents of Karkh district Sunday to build positive relationships and get input on improving security. “Basically, we’re trying to better the security in the area with the Iraqi army and the Iraqi police,” said Capt. Duane Waits, platoon leader, Troop A, 4th Battalion, 14th Cavalry Regiment, 172nd Stryker Brigade Combat Team, who is from Little Rock, Ark. “We were here for two or three days about four weeks ago,” he said. “The people were responsive and liked to provide us with information. We’ve improved their perception...

GHARMAH, Iraq (June 9, 2006) -- Marines with A Company, 1st Battalion, 1st Marine Regiment – along with soldiers from the Iraqi Army – brought a breath of fresh air to a local mosque. Operation Cool Carpet delivered two new air conditioning units and a box of prayer rugs to the Iraqi people near Gharmah, Iraq. “This is basically a mission of good will,” said Sgt. Juan J. Mendez, a 24-year-old squad leader from Gardena, Calif. “This, hopefully, will help the Iraqi soldiers become more trusted in the community.” Marines from A Company have operated in the area since the...

THE world's first "theme park" dedicated to sex and relationships is set to open in London's bustling West End later this year, its promoters said today. Amora: The Academy of Sex and Relationships, featuring "high-tech and interactive exhibits together with new media displays", expects up to 600,000 visitors within its first year in the Trocadero Centre at Piccadilly Circus. "Titillation is not the goal," the promoters – who include sexologist and self-help book author Sarah Brewer – said in a statement, refuting comparisons with museums of erotica in Amsterdam, Barcelona and Paris. "Our vision is to build a Kinsey-type institute...

ATLANTA, May 4, 2006 – Just as the United States is transforming its military to adapt to today's world, the nation must be willing to change old relationships and form new ones, Defense Secretary Donald H. Rumsfeld said here today. Defense Secretary Donald H. Rumsfeld poses for photos with members of the Georgia National Guard in Atlanta May 4. Photo by Petty Officer 1st Class Chad J. McNeeley, USN  (Click photo for screen-resolution image);high-resolution image available. Since the terrorist attacks of Sept. 11, 2001, Rumsfeld said, "the United States has done more things, with more different nations, in more constructive...

Thirty years after The Hite Report, its author is a fierce opponent of the raunch culture and a George W. Bush supporter. ___ THE poster seemed innocuous enough, but its timing was atrocious. At the height of the women's movement in the early 1970s there was one advertisement that enraged women so much that they decided to picket the company responsible. The ad, for Olivetti typewriters, showed a young blonde woman seated at her typewriter, her long legs crossed, her red lips making a seductive pout for the camera. "The typewriter that's so smart," ran the caption, "that she doesn't...

Soldiers from the 172nd Stryker Brigade Combat Team, and Iraqi troops with 2nd Brigade, 2nd Infantry Division conducted a dismounted patrol on the streets of Islah Zerla, recently. Their focus was to develop relations with Iraqis citizens, said Sgt. 1st Class David Dodson, platoon sergeant, 172nd Stryker Brigade. With the Iraqis patrolling along side them, it lets the people know their government and military care, and are taking steps toward freeing Iraq, he said. Since September, the Stryker Brigade has patrolled, searches in Islah Zerla, said Sgt. Justin Shaffer, a 172nd team leader. Their presence in the area gives them...

What can a celibate priest really teach us about love, sexuality, and relationships between men and women? That’s the question a Polish priest, Fr. Karol Wojtyla, addressed in the introduction to his revolutionary book, Love and Responsibility. Published in 1960, this book on sexual ethics was the fruit of Fr. Wojtyla’s extensive pastoral work with young people and his philosophical reflections on this topic while serving as a priest and university professor in Krakow — long before the world would come to know him as Pope John Paul II. In Love and Responsibility, Fr. Wojtyla argues that while a...

SAN FRANCISCO (AFP) - Cyber-sex, war, and erection-inducing drugs are a recipe for a more socially inept, violent culture, according to a panel of top US sex experts. The concern was raised as researchers discussed "The Future of Sex" at an unprecedented summit near Santa Fe, New Mexico, late last week. "The de-interaction of sex is something I worry about," said Julia Heiman, director of the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction. "If we go too much in the direction of virtual sex, what's left out? How you get along in a personal sphere is getting short...

Falling in love has never had a reputation for making much sense. Dante glimpsed Beatrice a few times and wouldn't shut up about her for decades. Why should not-falling-in-love be any more rational? It comes down to the deterrent power of a Phil Collins CD in a woman's car. Or, a guy who habitually sticks his tongue out while eating, like a lapping dog. His girlfriend returns him to his cage, permanently. Centuries from now, scientists may point to this as the moment in time when the pickiness gene became dominant. In the end, it will come down to one...

Freud confessed that his “thirty years of research into the feminine soul” left him unable to answer one great question: “What does a woman want?” Modern feminists have been arguing for decades over a variation of it: What should a woman want? This week, two sociologists from the University of Virginia are publishing the answer to a more manageable variation. Drawing on one of the most thorough surveys ever done of married couples, they’ve crunched the numbers and asked: What makes a woman happy with her marriage? Their answer doesn’t quite jibe with current conventional wisdom. Three decades ago, two-thirds...

Today it is Valentine's Day Men are in a hurry to say "I love you" to her with Diamonds or Fur ...and hope to get paid back "some way". Note: the thread in the hypertext link is a parody, so your mileage may vary... Off-topic, but couldn't resist: Dick Cheney hunted last weekend and accident'ly shot his friend But what makes it worse (no room in this verse) It means this gambit's at an end!

As a woman, New Yorker Norah Vincent was used to being stared at by men she passed in her Village neighborhood. It's a way men "assert their dominance," she says. But she often wondered what was behind those stares. So she conducted an experiment. Like John Howard Griffin, who disguised himself as an African-American in the South of 1959 for "Black Like Me," and Gregory Peck playing a writer posing as a Jew to investigate anti-Semitism in the Oscar-winning "Gentleman's Agreement," Vincent went undercover. With makeup, workouts, wardrobe and a voice coach, she became a man and plunged into a...

It is exceptionally difficult to find the right person to marry. This is especially true for first marriages. That is why it is so important to think through your decision by asking and answering critical questions. In Part I, I offered five. Here are seven more: 6. What problems do the two of you now have? And what inner voice of doubt, if any, are you suppressing? Here is a rule that is rarely broken: Whatever problems you have before the wedding day, you will have during your marriage. Do not think that marrying will solve any problem you have...

Decades of radio counseling, personal experience, and public and private discussions about marriage prompt me to write this list of questions for anyone contemplating marriage. 1. Is the person your best friend or at least becoming so? It is easy to find a lover. It is easy to get excited about a new person. But if you cannot say that the person you are considering marrying has become or is becoming your best friend, you need to figure out why before you decide to marry. This is probably the single most overlooked question among couples, especially young ones. And for...

Dear Tech Support: Last year I upgraded from Girlfriend 7.0 to Wife 1.0. I soon noticed that the new program began unexpected child processing that took up a lot of space and valuable resources. In addition, Wife 1.0 installed itself into all other programs and now monitors all other system activity: applications such as Poker Night 10.3, Football 5.0, Hunting and Fishing 7.5, and Racing 3.6. I can't seem to keep Wife 1.0 in the background while attempting to run my favorite applications. I'm thinking about going back to Girlfriend 7.0, but the uninstall doesn't work on Wife 1.0. Please...

When Jake Walker upsets his girlfriend, Jaci Boydston, he might buy her flowers. When Jaci feels she owes an apology to Jake, she agrees to play a round of the Nintendo fighting game "Super Smash Brothers." Jaci and Jake, who both attend Kansas State University, are a modern couple dealing with a modern issue. One of them is a gamer; the other is not. Theirs is not an unusual plight. For decades gamers and non-gamers in love have struggled to find harmony. At Kansas State the frustration is rampant. Like most college campuses, it is a place where the release...

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I'd like to know what freepers think of the idea of moving to the Phillippines (or a similar country) to take a break from the rat race and use the low cost of living to be able to work on my own projects. This is not retirement, in other words, but it's not precisely holding a job. I want to do something with my life that I create and am in charge of instead of working for others. My best guess is that this would be a web-based business that could be run from anywhere in the world. If I...

How is it that Amber Frey and Laci Peterson missed Scott Peterson's 'dangerous'? My guest on Monday's show, Sandra Brown, author of "How to Spot a Dangerous Man", gave very important information that everyone should know, especially women, but men will also find it very helpful as a tool to equip their daughters and sisters, mothers. She described the 8 kinds of non-violent dangerous men there are, and why so many women go through several unhealthy relationships before they get what's going on. Being able to recognize a 'dangerous man' without becoming paranoid is the goal, as well as understanding...

NEW YORK (AP) - Major League Baseball is looking into Barry Bonds' relationships and activities, according to a report in the New York Daily News. Citing anonymous baseball sources, the newspaper reported in its Sunday editions that baseball security officials believe Bonds might be at risk of conviction over allegations of tax fraud. The San Francisco Giants outfielder, who has been at the center of baseball's steroid's scandal, has yet to play this season as he recovers from knee surgeries. The most recent Bonds controversy involves him using his own doctors and trainers to treat his injured right knee. The...

Medford, Oregon - There's nothing so special about two gays living together, or two lesbians living together, that should cause Oregon's Legislature to treat them any differently than the members of any other special family unit. If those in non-married, non-traditional relationships, want the same benefits as marrieds, all Oregonians should all be treated the same. Discrimination by any other name is still discrimination. Gays and lesbians in Oregon have claimed that they are a discriminated class of Americans because they are denied the same legal status and the same tax and estate planning benefits as married, heterosexual couples. By...

Rating: 5 Stars Seed’s Sketchy Relationship Theories is an excellent book that takes a look at the plight of dating in this fast paced world. It quickly identifies some of the problems that may be plaguing men and women in their dating lives. With brutal honesty and candid comments it challenges the reader to think about how we are treating each other. It suggests that maybe, just maybe, we may be getting the dating game wrong. Once the problems are identified from the two authors perspective, it quickly shifts gears and begins to suggest well thought out solutions to maximizing...

After reading the posting http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/1338106/posts, I am motivated to provide my first post – a vanity which asks “Are there Freepers who are man enough for a strong, independent, self-supporting woman? The 150-plus responses I read appear to be mostly from Troglodytes or not-yet-grown party-boys, or momma’s spoiled brats who want a wife to continue to take care of their needs and enable their current, adolescent lifestyle. Too many posts are extolling the benefits of wives who are suitably subservient – from third-world nations. What about President Regan’s assertion that marriage is a process by which men are civilized though...

"The so-called sexual revolution is not, as advertised, a liberation of sexual behavior but rather its reversal. In former days, even under Victoria, sexual intercourse was the natural end and culmination of heterosexual relations. Now one begins with genital overtures instead of a handshake, then waits to see what will turn up (e.g., might become friends later). Like dogs greeting each other nose to tail and tail to nose." Walker Percy, The Last Gentleman (1966) Nineteen sixty-six, the year in which Walker Percy's The Last Gentleman was published, is also the year I entered as a first-yearman at the University...

By London 09.01.05 | The link between the Venezuelan president Hugo Chavez and terrorism seem to be a recurring theme. Time and again denounces and cases surface, however the official propaganda apparatus of Venezuela repeatedly play down reports branding the ever useful argument of the international conspiracy against the saviour of the downtrodden, Hugo Chavez that is. However preposterous, in the eyes of Venezuelan officials, these reports may be, a few unquestionable facts point at a rather lenient stance vis-à-vis terrorism at best and at worse at a clear state policy of protecting terrorists. Allow me to point out some...

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE LOVE, LIFE & RELATIONSHIPS FROM A REAL GUY’S PERSPECTIVE JUST IN TIME FOR VALENTINES DAY! January 9, 2005, Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada: Seed Enterprises is very proud and excited to announce the release of its first book: Seed’s Sketchy Relationship Theories - A Guide to The Perils of Dating (How not to become a bar regular). The release of this book is especially timely given that society is being inundated by a female perspective on love, life and relationships with such programs as Desperate Housewives and Sex In The City. In contrast, Seed’s Sketchy Relationship Theories is...

ANI[ THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 18, 2004 11:25:45 PM ] SYDNEY: Orgasms not only activate parts of the brain responsible for euphoria and pleasure, but also emotion, according to a scientist who says her research suggests orgasms are better if you're in love. Alternately, sexual pleasure may drive the process of falling in love, says Australian physiologist Dr Gemma O'Brien from the University of New England. "Something happens during orgasm to make us very happy and we don't really know how that works in terms of biology," ABC Online quoted her as saying. O'Brien said understanding how the brain acted when the...

There is a growing debate within Catholic circles surrounding the merits of courtship as opposed to dating. As the youngest canon lawyer in North America, I am less than a decade removed from my teenage years, and I also served as a canonical adviser to various adolescent-orientated Catholic apostolates. Therefore, I keep in touch with what-is current among today's youth. Yet I am also experienced with marriage tribunal ministry, where I regularly encounter broken marriages. My experiences with canon law and teenagers have taught me a thing or two about what constitutes unhealthy teenage dating behavior, as well as what...

This ebay listing is posted as written: This Helmet is like brand new. I bought it for my wife, but it's to small for her big fat head.You know, it was all a big lie right from the beginning. I asked her if she liked bikes, (i've been riding since i was 9 years old.) She's like "Yeah, I love Motorcycles, they're great!" Now, i'm thinking to myself, this chicks cool, she's hot, has big boobs, and loves motorcycles. I gotta snag this one up quick.Little did i know that as soon as i gave her the engagement ring, all...

IF you are a woman, you will have heard the excuses before. He’s stressed at work and too busy to call. He’s had an awful break-up and cannot commit. He’s not ready for marriage or he’s too tired for sex. Face it: the guy would rather chew off his arm than tell the truth: he’s just not that into you.A book advising women to be realistic about the men they hope to date or marry has become this season’s publishing sensation. Copies of He’s Just Not That Into You have become more difficult to find in America than an honest...

Ran across an interesting site that had never shown up before in hundreds of Google searches I've done. The site is here and diagrams relationships between people and www citations. Very novel, unusual, and interesting. Looks like something the alphabet soups would have on their computers! For example, here is the search for Lockhart, Joseph. Just for fun you can type in Burkett, Robert but not much shows up. You might want to bookmark it for future investigation(s). Some of the relationship results were highly interesting when I was playing with various names. Found the site today while looking for...

This forum has been too serious today and I thought everyone could use a slight break from politics to get a laugh (maybe?). We always hear "the rules" from the female side. Now here are the rules from the male side. These are our rules: Please note... these are all of equal weight, ON PURPOSE! • Breasts are for looking at and that is why we do it. Don't try to change that. • Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don't...

Sex Tips for Red-State Girls! By JENNIFER SENIOR Published: July 4, 2004 Ever since she qualified for a car award from her employer, Passion Parties, Linda Brewer has buzzed around the South in a silver Cadillac Escalade with a license plate that says ''Funlady.'' On the road, men often notice it and honk before passing, only to realize, with baffled amusement, that a woman of nearly 60 is at the wheel. ''Hey, girl,'' she shouted the first time we met, as she smiled and waved from the car window. ''Climb in.'' Passion Parties is a direct-sales organization based in Brisbane,...

Where Faith Flourishes While one should walk by faith in all of life, they are obvious times when it is activated more than others. Each person has his inner issues and outer issues in life. His inner issues involve such things as doubts, secret sins, feelings of rejection, worry, etc. Whereas, his outer issues tend to be much more visible and definitive, i.e., finances, health, family issues. I have long observed in my experience that the more tangible a circumstance is, the more taxing it is on my faith. It is much easier for me to dismiss the intangible issues...

LOS ANGELES, April 2, 2004—Jody Eldred Productions today announced it has just completed filming and is in the final stages of production on an inspirational documentary called, “Changed Lives: Miracles of The Passion,” which will air nationwide Easter weekend. With rave reviews from Diane Sawyer on ABC’s “Good Morning America” and Joe Scarborough on MSNBC’s “Scarborough Country,” this one-hour T.V. special was shot in High Definition and documents the true stories of people whose lives have been forever changed by Mel Gibson’s incredible motion picture “The Passion of The Christ.” “I knew instantly that people’s lives were going to be...

Building better military-to-military ties topped the agenda as Joint Chiefs Chairman Air Force Gen. Richard B. Myers met with Paraguayan leaders here today. Myers met with Paraguayan President Duarte Frutos, Defense Minister Roberto Gonzales and Gen. Jose Key Kanazawa during a three-hour visit. Myers is on a tour through South America to build military relationships in the region. The chairman arrived in the middle of a torrential downpour that flooded streets in this capital city. He met with Duarte at the Ministry of Defense, where the president was celebrating Army Day. Myers said his visit is meant to further bilateral...

Even legendary heroes must sometimes have to suffer vicious reversals. Disaster does not only befall people like you and I. It has, without exception, marred the lives of all men. General Grant had his Cold Harbor, General Lee had Gettysburg, Churchill had Gallipoli, but for you and I, in less heroic circumstances, it could well be ruination by some young, luscious vixen who, by design or accident, succeeded in acquiring the key to all of our endorphin receptors. Maybe you went out with her for a month or maybe you saw her for three years, yet, whatever the duration, your...

Stable partners help HIV patients HIV/AIDS patients have a much better chance of staying alive if they're in a stable relationship, new research has found. Swiss scientists reported in the British Medical Journal that HIV/AIDS patients with a stable partner responded much better to treatment, had better functioning immune systems and lived longer than those without. By contrast, the virus progressed much more quickly in single patients. "We can only speculate about the reasons why a stable partnership is associated with a slower rate of disease progression for people with HIV," Professor Heiner Bucher wrote. "People with a stable...

Lookin' for love among the pews Atlanta singles ministries promote relationships with God and opposite sex Bo Emerson - Staff Saturday, November 29, 2003 Carter Cantrell and his roommate Greg Schultz went up to Buckhead one Saturday night to pick up women. They failed miserably. Sunday morning Cantrell sat hunkered in front of the television set, nursing a bruised ego, entranced by a broadcast from Peachtree Presbyterian featuring a panoply of attractive females. "You know," he said to Schultz, "maybe we've been going about this the wrong way." Already a Christian, Cantrell began to think of the church in a...

"The way we define 'human' determines our view of self, others, relationships, life, and future. Choose wisely...there will be results.

Many Teen Girls Date More Than One Person at a Time By Alison McCook NEW YORK (Reuters Health) - Almost half of teenaged girls have been in a "non-exclusive" relationship, in which they and their partners could date other people, according to a survey of 12 to 15 year olds. While this might increase their health risks, say the authors of the report in the journal Sexually Transmitted Diseases, it doesn't automatically follow. In fact, overall, having multiple relationships can be a positive. The investigators found that girls who were younger and believed their boyfriends were dating other people were...

<p>NEW YORK — Demi Moore (search) is not alone. Close to a third of unmarried American women in their 40s through 60s who date are going out with younger men, according to one of the most sweeping surveys ever conducted on the dating habits and sex lives of mid-life singles.</p>

Older women, younger men Celebrities not only ones to embrace growing trend By BO EMERSON The Atlanta Journal-Constitution For five years, Betty Rials dated a man slightly older than her oldest child. She was in her 50s; he was in his 30s. They danced, shopped for antiques, put a new roof on her carport and got along famously. But she wasn't ready for wedlock. "I didn't think marriage would work with someone that much younger," says the retired insurance underwriter, who lives in Kennesaw and prefers not to reveal her age. "The only way I could break up with him...

  Have I told you lately that I love you....  ;) How is it that we can go through life taking for granted all of those wonderful people that make life worth living, without ever telling them?How could we be so distracted that we overlook the importance of the devotion, caring, and warmth that our loved ones provide?What would you do if tomorrow they were simply gone, vanished ..forevere..?  How would you feel?   What was the last thing you said to them?  What would you say to bring them back? What would you do differently?What if I told you that...

Archbishop of Canterbury backs faithful gay relationships By Ruth Gledhill, Religion Correspondent THE Archbishop of Canterbury will reignite the simmering row over homosexuality in the Church by backing gay relationships in a controversial essay dedicated to the subject. At the height of a debate over homosexuality that threatens to split the Anglican Church in two, Rowan Williams has sanctioned the reissuing of a six-year-old essay that challenges traditional biblical interpretations. Evangelicals gave a warning last night that schism now seemed inevitable, in view of Dr Williams’s attack on the key texts used against homosexuals by conservatives at such a sensitive...

<p>According to a 1999 National Vital Statistics Report from the CDC, 7.4 per 1,000 Americans married in 1998. From 1990 to 1995, the marriage rate dropped from 9.8 to 7.6. Different sources render other statistics but the trend remains sharply downward.</p>

On New Year's morning in 1999, Sasha Cagen, now 29, was having brunch with her friends in NYC after a New Year's Eve on which none of them had had a midnight kiss. While getting cash at an ATM, Cagen turned to them and said, "I think we're the quirkyalones." It was, as she puts it, "a completely spontaneous, guttural exclamation. It had been brewing in my mind because I had been single 90 percent of my teenage and adult life, which makes someone feel a little bit weird, so there had been a long process of considering the fact...

Janet Reibstein and Martin Richards, authors of Sexual Arrangements: Marriage and the Temptation of Infidelity (Scribner), estimate 'between 50 and 75 per cent of men, and only a slightly smaller proportion of women, have had or are having affairs while married'.

LONDON (AP) - Leaders of the world's Anglican churches said Tuesday that they cannot support ceremonies blessing homosexual relationships, which one bishop in Canada has permitted. "The question of public rites for the blessing of same-sex unions is still a cause of potentially divisive controversy," primates of the 38 national churches and provinces said in a statement following their meeting in Gramado in southern Brazil. "The archbishop of Canterbury spoke for us all when he said that it is through liturgy that we express what we believe, and that there is no theological consensus about same sex unions. Therefore, we...