Didn't answer my question.
Is there a chance that, deep down, consenting soldiers having gay sex bugs you a LOT more than soldiers raping foreign civilian women (even if it's in the country they're supposed to be liberating) because "boys will be boys?"
It's just that I have some knowledge of military history and how soldiers, sailors, etc. have universally behaved for thousands of years, and don't live in some sort of naive fantasyworld where all immorality and depravity magically started a few years or a decade ago.
It's simply the existence of twitter that makes something that was obviously happening long before DADT was repealed that makes this more detectable and visible.
And I personally believe soldiers having consensual sex with each other is far less immoral than soldiers raping civilian women, and not any more immoral than soldiers having sex with prostitutes.