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Letter from the Lubavitcher Rebbe about SSA
guardyoureyes.com ^ | 2/4/'86 | Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson

Posted on 05/06/2015 7:49:57 AM PDT by Zionist Conspirator

By the Grace of G-d
25th of Shevat, 5746
Brooklyn, N.Y.

Greeting and Blessing:

This is to acknowledge receipt of your letter of Jan. 26th, in which you write about a serious problem.

As requested, I will remember you in prayer for the fulfillment of your heart's desires for good.

While all blessings come from HaShem [G‑d], a Jew is expected to do what is necessary in the natural order. In the matter of the said problem, you surely know that there are doctors and psychiatrists who treat it, and have been successful in many cases. I know of a number of cases of people who had this problem but eventually overcame it, married and raised a family.

While on this topic, I would like to clear up a misconception that has led some individuals into confusion and wrong conclusions. The misconception stems from the argument that since some individuals are born with this problem, it must be a "natural" thing; hence it cannot be designated as a wrong, or a sin, and there is therefore no need to do anything to change it, or at any rate, it is not a serious problem at all.

That this approach is entirely without foundation can be seen from the fact that the Torah (called Toras Chaim and Toras Emes because it is our true guide in the everyday life) declares that to indulge in it, or even to dwell on it mentally, is a grave transgression of HaShem's commandment. Hence, it is also clear that the problem is controllable, for if it were beyond human control, HaShem would not have made it a sin.

The fact that the problem may largely be congenital does not alter the situation. Every day children are born with particular natures and innate tendencies or drives, some of them good and some of them bad. This is why human beings have to be trained and educated, so as to develop and strengthen the positive characteristics and eliminate the bad ones. The Creator endowed human beings with the capacity to improve, indeed even to change, their "natural" (i.e. innate) traits. A case in point is kleptomania. It is generally recognized that kleptomania is a very compulsive drive. But no one will suggests that because it is probably inborn and extremely difficult to resist, the kleptomaniac should be told that it is okay for him to steal, or that there is nothing he can, or should, do about it, and so on. Similarly in the case of one who is born with a drive to destroy things or with a quarrelsome or aggressive nature, with a propensity to cheat or lie, or any other innate trait that is considered reprehensible. No normal society would declare that since one was born that way, one should be allowed to go through life according to his natural desires and tendencies. Such an attitude will help neither the individual, nor the society. On the contrary, everything should be, and is, done to help individuals to overcome their neurological problems, whatever they may be.

Needless to say, the person who is afflicted with this or other neurological problems, may well ask, "Why has HaShem created such a compulsive drive, which is in direct contradiction to His moral Code? Why has He afflicted me, who desires to comply fully with His commandments?"

No human being can answer such questions, which only HaShem, the Creator, can answer. One observation that can be suggested in relation to the question, "Why me?" If an individual experiences a particularly difficult, or trying, situation, it may be assumed that HaShem has given him extraordinary powers to overcome the extraordinary difficulty. The individual concerned is probably unaware of his real inner strength; the trial may therefore be designed for the sole purpose of bringing out in the individual his hidden strength, which, after overcoming his problem, can be added henceforth to the arsenal of his revealed capacities, in order to utilize both for infinitely greater achievements for the benefit of himself, and others.

Maimonides, the "Guide of the Perplexed" of his generation and of all subsequent generations, who was also acclaimed as the greatest physician of his times, declares in a well known passage in his famous Code, Mishneh Torah (Yad Hachazaka): "Every person has the option (power), if he so desires, to direct himself to do only good and be a Tzaddik, or, if he chooses, to fellow the bad road and be a Rasha. Do not ever think that a person is predestined from birth to be a Tzaddik or Rasha. Nor is there any inner compulsion to make a choice, but one has the capacity to choose the right behavior, and it is entirely a matter of one's own will and determination" (Free translation from Hil. Teshuva, ch. 5. See it there at length).

A final remark from the scientific viewpoint.

To say that the human mind and neural system are unimaginably intricate, is to say the obvious. Only the Creator knows His handiwork. But the Creator has endowed the human mind with wonderful qualities to probe the mysteries of nature, to research and experiment and steadily gain more knowledge about himself and his physical and mental capacities. Considerable progress has been made by scientists in their studies of the brain cells and hormones. It is now clear that a wide range of human emotions and sensations can be stimulated artificially with the aid of electronic and biochemical techniques. It is now generally agreed that most, if not all, neurological disorders, including deviant sexual behavior, probably proceed from chemical (hormone) deficiencies or irregularities during the period of youth. Some neurological disorders are already being treated successfully in certain areas involving the neural system" and it is to be hoped that the range will expand and eventually include the whole spectrum of neurological disorders, both of individuals and of nations.

In the meantime, we can only put our trust in HaShem, and strengthen our adherence to the Torah and Mitzvoth, of which it is written, "'They are our life and the length of our days."

With blessing,

Editor's Note: This is an original draft of a letter dictated by theRebbe to his secretary. We do not have access to the final draft, which was possibly amended and/or changed

Reprinted from Chabad.org


TOPICS: Current Events; Judaism; Moral Issues; Religion & Culture
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To: Nachum; Zionist Conspirator
" The Jewish concept of punishment is as I have been taught a kind of 'purgatory' where the soul undergoes a painful cleansing process. Eventually, the soul returns to its maker afterwards.

The idea of a physical punishment of 'burning' is more of an anthropomorphized interpretation of a spiritual process. -Which is supposedly more painful than burning.
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Yes. Thank you. And more surely, there's the 13th Principle of The RaMBaM (resurrection of the dead). I do have an aversion to allusions of some concepts from other religions, because certain of those concepts seem idolatrous to me. ZC probably understands.

As a Gentile who studies, I do *not* reject the Oral Law, of course. But I only see perfect accuracy in the written Torah and Prophets, which were unaffected by period troubles and emotions. The Oral Torah was written later. That's one thing that makes study more difficult for me. The Prophets didn't write it. Wish that I could study it all within this lifetime.

So there's an answer to one of my own questions and yet another declaration that I don't know much.


21 posted on 05/07/2015 9:44:27 PM PDT by familyop (We Baby Boomers are croaking in an avalanche of corruption smelled around the planet.)
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To: Nachum

God knows I sin.
He knows I tell him I sin.
I try to keep from committing those sins again.
God knows how often I fail.
He knows I tell Him I sin.
He knows I fear Him.
I leave eternity to God.


22 posted on 05/07/2015 9:56:03 PM PDT by onedoug
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To: Rashputin

What is the source of your ignorance?
What is the source of your grievance and lunacy, which leads you to protect abortion by picking this fight perverted mad monk?


23 posted on 05/08/2015 12:14:49 AM PDT by rmlew ("Mosques are our barracks, minarets our bayonets, domes our helmets, the believers our soldiers.")
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To: Zionist Conspirator

Giving the hair-raising damnations Christian sling at each other, it may not be as alarming as it seems. Fortunately, Jew-hate makes for a bad web site, and a lot of web site operators understand that. That might be as much as can be hoped.


24 posted on 05/08/2015 5:58:17 AM PDT by jjotto ("Ya could look it up!")
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To: familyop
Does the Talmud teach a belief in the existence of the burning-forever kind of Roman Hell? Granted, I haven’t gotten far with the Oral side, but I haven’t seen that, yet.

You're asking the wrong person. The afterlife is a relatively esoteric subject in Judaism (the thrust is on law). There are many Torah observant Jews on this forum who could answer your question far better than I.

There is the concept of "Ge'-Benei-Hinnom" (the valley of the sons of Hinnom, a reference to an area outside Jerusalem considered the worst place to live), but whether it is merely temporary and purgatorial for everyone or eternal for some I do not know.

25 posted on 05/08/2015 6:49:54 AM PDT by Zionist Conspirator (The "end of history" will be Worldwide Judaic Theocracy.)
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To: familyop
As a Gentile who studies, I do *not* reject the Oral Law, of course. But I only see perfect accuracy in the written Torah and Prophets, which were unaffected by period troubles and emotions.

Since every single kosher copy of the Torah and Prophets has been written in accordance with minute regulations found only in the Oral Law, the idea that the Written is "more perfect" than the Oral is false on its face.

26 posted on 05/08/2015 6:53:43 AM PDT by Zionist Conspirator (The "end of history" will be Worldwide Judaic Theocracy.)
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To: rmlew; Rashputin
What is the source of your ignorance?
What is the source of your grievance and lunacy, which leads you to protect abortion by picking this fight perverted mad monk?

Actually, in that post he was protecting homsexuality, not abortion.

27 posted on 05/08/2015 6:55:34 AM PDT by Zionist Conspirator (The "end of history" will be Worldwide Judaic Theocracy.)
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To: jjotto
Giving the hair-raising damnations Christian sling at each other, it may not be as alarming as it seems.

You have a point. For me, the mutual "hair-raising damnations" are preferable to the "let's all get along/truth doesn't really matter/let's all merge into one big happy mongrel "religion" line.

Fortunately, Jew-hate makes for a bad web site, and a lot of web site operators understand that. That might be as much as can be hoped.

You're right there as well. Jew-hate does make for a bad web site (at least for conservatives)--unfortunately, usually for the wrong reasons.

28 posted on 05/08/2015 6:58:40 AM PDT by Zionist Conspirator (The "end of history" will be Worldwide Judaic Theocracy.)
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To: Zionist Conspirator

Of course pretenders resent being told in Psalm 147, “He sheweth his word unto Jacob, his statutes and his judgments unto Israel. He hath not dealt so with any nation: and as for his judgments, they have not known them.”


29 posted on 05/08/2015 7:20:28 AM PDT by jjotto ("Ya could look it up!")
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To: Zionist Conspirator

“he idea that the Written is “more perfect” than the Oral is false on its face.”

True and yet also false.

The Talmud, as we know it today, is no exactly the Oral Law, which I agree is also perfect.

For one, the Talmud is incomplete and does not include the entirety of the Oral Law.

For two, the copies of the Talmud we have are slightly inconsistent in given passages and conflict. There appear to be additions and opinions added and it is difficult to discern what is the scribe’s opinion (or opinion of another) compared to the actual Oral Law.

The Torah, while incomplete without the Oral Law, does not have the above difficulties.

About 20 years ago, I made the mistake of trying to read the Talmud without a guide (or even a group of serious men) to help me. I was an MIT engineer, a fighter pilot, and damn smart, I thought. I can figure this out. Not so. I became very lost for a time.


30 posted on 05/08/2015 11:29:20 AM PDT by Jewbacca (The residents of Iroquois territory may not determine whether Jews may live in Jerusalem)
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To: familyop

“Does the Talmud teach a belief in the existence of the burning-forever kind of Roman Hell? Granted, I haven’t gotten far with the Oral side, but I haven’t seen that, yet.”

No, not really. Something unpleasant, yes. But it is reserved for the foulest of men, and perhaps none make the cut. Maybe Haman. Maybe Hitler. But then, Haman loved his children and Hitler loved his county and was very kind to animals. So hopefully not even them.

I will say that the Talmud contains the theology regarding the the world-to-come, and the Karaite approach of Torah only (first opined by the Sadducees as named in the Christian testaments) would mean that there is no world to come.

Such rejection of the Oral Law was specifically rejected by the original Christian founders, in that they specifically focused on the world to come.


31 posted on 05/08/2015 11:35:12 AM PDT by Jewbacca (The residents of Iroquois territory may not determine whether Jews may live in Jerusalem)
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To: Jewbacca
Thank you very much.

"I will say that the Talmud contains the theology regarding the the world-to-come, and the Karaite approach of Torah only (first opined by the Sadducees as named in the Christian testaments) would mean that there is no world to come."

It appears that the Karaite approach may be a narrow one then. There's some essential information about the world to come in the Prophets. More excitement in the Oral Torah--even better!


32 posted on 05/08/2015 12:39:21 PM PDT by familyop (We Baby Boomers are croaking in an avalanche of corruption smelled around the planet.)
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To: Zionist Conspirator

Thank you, ZC. Have a good weekend.


33 posted on 05/08/2015 4:37:16 PM PDT by familyop (We Baby Boomers are croaking in an avalanche of corruption smelled around the planet.)
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To: Jewbacca
"The residents of Iroquois territory may not determine whether Jews may live in Jerusalem."

[Smile] That would be all kinds of people from every nation with no exceptions. Well said! HaShem decided once and for all.


34 posted on 05/08/2015 4:42:36 PM PDT by familyop (We Baby Boomers are croaking in an avalanche of corruption smelled around the planet.)
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