“It’s always best if the family stays together” is CPS’s canned recommendation. Even when there’s sexual abuse. I believe it’s because there is no place to put the kids. Nobody wants them.
I don’t believe that nobody wants the children. The system is set up for the mother to get the children back over and over. Nobody wants to deal with loving those children and then having to send them back to that.
I could never do foster care, I would get too attached and not be able to let them go, especially if I knew they were going back to a “mother” like this. I would have taken in abused and/or neglected children years ago if I could have just been able to love and raise them as my own. I believe there would be homes for these children if it worked that way. If you want to adopt you have to deal with the system trying to reunite them with parents over and over for years before you would have the chance to adopt.
I don’t know how people are able to foster children, my hat is off to them because I could not do it.