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Lessons in Gratitude, at the Basement Sink (credit to Freeper Utahagen)
nytimes.com ^ | Ben Stein

Posted on 03/25/2017 4:07:01 PM PDT by RoosterRedux

MY father entered Williams College in Williamstown, Mass., in September 1931. The United States was entering the downswing of a small uptick at the beginning of what would be the worst industrial depression in history.

My father had an unemployed father (a former skilled tool-and-die maker) and a mother who worked as a sales clerk at a department store in Schenectady, N.Y. He had no money, no financial reserves, no social connections.

He told me of many jobs while he was at Williams, but one stays in my memory a dozen times a day, especially when I am working by traveling through a dismal, endless security line or waiting in a line to check into a hotel or noticing that my bed in my new hotel has a ripped sheet and is next to a noisy air-conditioner.

My father had a job thanks to a kindly man named Taylor Ostrander at a fraternity called Sigma Psi. My father's job was to wash dishes in the basement of the frat house as the other boys finished their lunches and dinners. (One of the boys, Richard Helms, went on to be director of the C.I.A., but that's another story.) He toiled down there at a huge sink, with steam rising and detergent getting on his unimaginably soft hands. He wore a stocking cap to keep his already curly hair from going crazy.

It was the 1930's, and Jews weren't allowed in any fraternity at Williams. Many years later, maybe in the 1980's, by which time my father had become a major economist and public policy discussant, I asked him if he felt angry about having to wash dishes to pay his way through school in a fraternity that didn't admit Jews. "Not at all," he said.

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1 posted on 03/25/2017 4:07:01 PM PDT by RoosterRedux
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To: utahagen; hoosiermama; onyx; Jane Long; V K Lee; RitaOK; Black Agnes; PennsylvaniaMom; Fai Mao; ...
Ping to an article brought to my attention by Freeper Utahagen.

She's not only beautiful...she's also smart.


2 posted on 03/25/2017 4:12:21 PM PDT by RoosterRedux
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To: RoosterRedux

Who’s the lady?


3 posted on 03/25/2017 4:20:12 PM PDT by LinnieBeth
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To: LinnieBeth
Uta Hagen.

Have you been living under a rock?;-)

4 posted on 03/25/2017 4:25:04 PM PDT by RoosterRedux
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To: RoosterRedux

“I didn’t have the luxury of feeling aggrieved.”

Snowflakes and SJWs need to learn this concept.


5 posted on 03/25/2017 4:26:38 PM PDT by GnuThere
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To: GnuThere

Grievance is their privilege.


6 posted on 03/25/2017 4:30:25 PM PDT by Hugin (Conservatism without Nationalism is a fraud.)
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To: RoosterRedux

“Gratitude is riches, complaint is poverty.” —Doris Day


7 posted on 03/25/2017 4:36:06 PM PDT by Auntie Mame (Fear not tomorrow. God is already there.)
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To: Auntie Mame

I am extraordinarily wealthy.


8 posted on 03/25/2017 4:37:40 PM PDT by RoosterRedux
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To: RoosterRedux

Stein’s story reminded me of a situation this week. I arrived at my hotel at 10:30 pm after a 16 or so hour day. I had a 6:50 am flight for which I woke at 4:15 for a 5am shuttle. I got to the front desk at 4:50 to find that the 5am shuttle left ten minutes early.

The desk clerk forgot to put me down for the shuttle as I had requested.

I thought about chewing out the driver for leaving early, but instead had a very pleasant conversation with a young man, who while being a black man was a thoughtful Trump supporter. I only bring up his skin color because it’s so unusual for his political views.

Had I been angry, we would have never encouraged each other.


9 posted on 03/25/2017 4:46:23 PM PDT by cyclotic
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To: cyclotic

Good man. I predict you will have a long, happy, and productive life.


10 posted on 03/25/2017 4:53:01 PM PDT by RoosterRedux
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To: RoosterRedux

Freeper utahagan may be beautiful but the real one...not so much. Frightening, in fact!


11 posted on 03/25/2017 4:54:01 PM PDT by miss marmelstein
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To: miss marmelstein
Well, you have direct B'way experience, Miss M. The rest of us just have the photographs.;-)

Tell us more.

I only know her from history but would love to hear the truth.

12 posted on 03/25/2017 4:57:43 PM PDT by RoosterRedux
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To: RoosterRedux

DemocRats today don’t know that they have the luxury of feeling aggrieved.


13 posted on 03/25/2017 5:11:41 PM PDT by Blood of Tyrants (Conservatives love America for what it is. Liberals hate America for the same reason.)
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To: RoosterRedux

Well, she was considered a very great actress and, of course, founded The Herbert Bergoff acting studio in NYC. She was the original Martha in Whose Afraid of Virginia Woolf and was supposed to be explosive in that role. She was married to Jose Ferrer, a friend of my husband, who said she was exactly like that. I only saw her once on stage at the end of her life and she was so technical as to be dead on stage. That’s not to knock her; she was getting older and as we say, no one is famous for nothing.

If you rent The Boys in the Band, you’ll see her as a Nazi. Not a good-looking woman.


14 posted on 03/25/2017 5:17:52 PM PDT by miss marmelstein
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To: miss marmelstein
My connection with Uta Hagen, the actress, is the NY Times crossword puzzle.

Did that puzzle for 35 years. Never finished the Sunday puzzle.

Well, maybe once or twice.

15 posted on 03/25/2017 5:29:35 PM PDT by RoosterRedux
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To: RoosterRedux

I thought she was Utah Agen a famous Mormon writer


16 posted on 03/25/2017 5:38:16 PM PDT by Rebelbase
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