[PapaBear3625]

“I’m not going to re-marry with a foreign woman either, even one from a more traditional values culture, because it would always be in the back of my mind that she is just marrying me for the money and to get into the US.”

True, I’ve considered it, but if you go that route, you pretty much have to permanently relocate to her country, to avoid the perils you are talking about.

Yes, it seems like the only way to do it is to emigrate to her country, make clear that you are never going back to the US (to eliminate the ones who only want a green card), and make it clear that the cash flow stops when you die (to give her an incentive to keep you healthy). Then give her some cash flow towards her retirement.

If you treat it as you are hiring an employee to do your housework and warm your bed, then you will be unlikely to be disappointed. If there is some actual affection there, that's a bonus.

[Utilizer]

If you treat it as you are hiring an employee to do your housework and warm your bed, then you will be unlikely to be disappointed. If there is some actual affection there, that's a bonus.

I've actually considered doing something like that with one or more of the girls I have had over helping with the housework now and again. :)

Maybe some day. No worries, for now. I rather enjoy the privacy, truth be told, and women tend to slowly take over the environment once they get a foothold started.