She just hangs on to things forever...I’m still hearing that I bought the Subaru without consulting her. I’ve given up explaining I brought it, and 2 others cars before it, home, with the lady salesman, and found she could get in it, and we all sat downstairs and talked about it. She asked me if we could afford, I said yes, and she said ok, AND she thought Dad approved too. That was almost 3 years ago. *sigh* But she doesn’t scream! d:o)
Aunt Clara did the same but now that her memory is pretty much non-existent, we don’t have that problem with her any more. But we did for too many years.
I feel for you going through this mess. It isn’t fun but it comes with the territory I guess.