And your point? :)
When you’re in the military, that’s all you get to be. You have to be available at all times for whatever reason they might need you. It’s not a Mon-Fri, 8am to 430pm shift.
What? I naturally don’t do as much for my employer as I didd when I was in the military ... Because I’m a girl?
Is tgat what you’re trying to imply?