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‘Withholding Sex’ Now Considered ‘Sexual Violence’ at University of Michigan
National Review ^ | 09/27/2014 | Katherine Timpf

Posted on 09/27/2014 9:49:48 AM PDT by SeekAndFind

The University of Michigan has released a list of relationship behaviors that it considers violent and abusive — including “withholding sex.”

“Discounting the partner’s feelings regarding sex,” “criticizing the partner sexually,” and “having sex with other people” are also examples of “sexual violence,” according to the list.

The school also offers definitions of domestic abuse. Under the section for “verbal or psychological abuse,” it states that not only is “insulting the partner” considered “abuse,” so is “ignoring the partner’s feelings.”

Janet Bloomfield, social media director for A Voice for Men, explained the dangers of such broad definitions of “violence” in an e-mail to the College Fix.

“When things like ‘withholding sex’ and ‘ignoring a partner’s feelings’ are framed as a pattern of behavior that is abusive, they are not only pathologizing normal relationship behaviors, but they are opening the door for vindictive or spurned partners to make allegations that can have profound effects for the accused,” she said.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events; US: Michigan
KEYWORDS: college; michigan; sex; violence
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To: SeekAndFind


21 posted on 09/27/2014 10:14:05 AM PDT by Chode (Stand UP and Be Counted, or line up and be numbered - *DTOM* -vvv- NO Pity for the LAZY - 86-44)
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To: SeekAndFind

We’re seeing the natural progression of Liberals’ need to control and regulate everything.

That their ideas are now coming into direct conflict with each other is lost on all but the elite few who know that the regulation and control is simply a path to power.

Cue the Atlas Shrugged quote about making everything illegal.


22 posted on 09/27/2014 10:18:04 AM PDT by tanknetter
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To: SeekAndFind

I figured them out years ago, they can’t cut you off if they don’t know where you’re getting it!


23 posted on 09/27/2014 10:25:12 AM PDT by Beagle8U (If illegal aliens are undocumented immigrants, then shoplifters are undocumented customers.)
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To: SeekAndFind

On whose side? Both the female and the male?


24 posted on 09/27/2014 10:26:36 AM PDT by castlegreyskull
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To: SeekAndFind

This is getting stupid from any angle you look at it...holding sex is sexual violence?..for who?.. if your a man ,a women..


25 posted on 09/27/2014 10:30:53 AM PDT by tophat9000 (An Eye for an Eye, a Word for a Word...nothing more)
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To: SeekAndFind

In a marriage, withholding sex for revenge or to dominate is abuse.


26 posted on 09/27/2014 10:40:37 AM PDT by freedomfiter2 (Brutal acts of commission and yawning acts of omission both strengthen the hand of the devil.)
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To: SeekAndFind
‘Withholding Sex’ Now Considered ‘Sexual Violence’ at University of Michigan

I'm sure they'll realize they made a mistake the first time a male employs this against a female. It's kind of like a guy's response to "sexual harassment" accusations.

27 posted on 09/27/2014 10:41:04 AM PDT by Kenton
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To: moovova

Screwed if you do, screwed if you don’t.


28 posted on 09/27/2014 10:41:05 AM PDT by DoughtyOne (Obama and the Left are maggots feeding off the flesh of the United States.)
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To: GeronL

It would take a modern liberal not to laugh his fool head off at this farce.


29 posted on 09/27/2014 10:56:16 AM PDT by HiTech RedNeck (Embrace the Lion of Judah and He will roar for you and teach you to roar too. See my page.)
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To: DoughtyOne

Or unscrewed, or something.

Could this have been a joke?

Now if folks are dwelling coed but DON’T have any sex, this is a scandal?


30 posted on 09/27/2014 10:58:10 AM PDT by HiTech RedNeck (Embrace the Lion of Judah and He will roar for you and teach you to roar too. See my page.)
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To: SeekAndFind

So tempted to send this to the Ex.


31 posted on 09/27/2014 10:58:53 AM PDT by Dawggie
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To: basil

Pedal to the medal.


32 posted on 09/27/2014 11:05:24 AM PDT by Red in Blue PA (When Injustice becomes Law, Resistance Becomes Duty.-Thomas Jefferson)
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To: Chode

I wish you wouldn’t post my picture when I bang my head into the pole. It hurts enough then you make it hurt more by laughing at me!


33 posted on 09/27/2014 11:06:24 AM PDT by B4Ranch (Name your illness, do a Google & YouTube search with "hydrogen peroxide". Do it and be surprised.)
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To: SeekAndFind

Any time a male interacts with a female, even in a non sexual context, will be considered as sexual violence.
After that, the mere existence of a male will be considered sexual violence.
I am living in a looney toon.


34 posted on 09/27/2014 11:06:25 AM PDT by Fred Hayek (The Democratic Party is now the operational arm of the CPUSA)
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To: SeekAndFind

Those all used to fall under the term “sex as a weapon”, so I suppose.


35 posted on 09/27/2014 11:08:27 AM PDT by discostu (We don't leave the ladies crying cause the story's sad.)
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To: SeekAndFind

The colleges need to get 100% OUT of any sanctions at all regarding sex, beyond one simple “rule” - what is illegal with regard to sexual activity under civil and criminal law locally is behavior - upon notification of an accusation it has occurred - that will be turned over to the law authorities locally & for them to deal with; and only if any such matter results in a conviction under such laws, the college will take appropriate academic sanctions against the convicted person. Beyond that the rest is politics, kangaroo courts, interference in Liberty, and treating academia as a “sovereign” land under no nation’s laws, but its own.


36 posted on 09/27/2014 11:09:21 AM PDT by Wuli
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To: HiTech RedNeck

Man, I’ll tell ya, this topic could get a guy in trouble so fast.

One woman freely admits her husband has to beg for it and laughs.

The jokes literally jump out at you from all directions.

How many fraternity brothers does it take to screw in a..., well never-mind.


37 posted on 09/27/2014 11:10:00 AM PDT by DoughtyOne (Obama and the Left are maggots feeding off the flesh of the United States.)
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To: SeekAndFind

Everyone is entitled to an opinion. None of this is any business of a university.

If you are paying money for this, you’re throwing good money after bad.


38 posted on 09/27/2014 11:11:02 AM PDT by marron
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To: sneakers

bump.....


39 posted on 09/27/2014 11:13:03 AM PDT by A. Morgan (Ayn Rand: "You can avoid reality, but you cannot avoid the consequences of avoiding reality.")
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To: B4Ranch
LOL! i was once ask why i bang my head against a pole, i told them because it feels so good when i stop...
40 posted on 09/27/2014 11:24:29 AM PDT by Chode (Stand UP and Be Counted, or line up and be numbered - *DTOM* -vvv- NO Pity for the LAZY - 86-44)
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