Right.
I don’t understand why young women even WANT children if they are not prepared to care for them.
If they are forever looking for short cuts to child care or looking for sitters on the cheap... well, the child suffers.
If the child doesn’t suffer immediately (as in this case) then down the road when a mother finds that the various and irresponsible idiots you entrusted your child to, have forever contaminated and corrupted his/her little brain. You now have an 11 year old (or older) who is a perfect monster and you CANNOT reverse the damage!!!
They’ll open their legs to make the guy happy.
The answer is simple: these young women are
-- inexperienced, but THINK they know everything,
-- arrogant, because men have drooled over them for eons, parents and friends have REPEATEDLY told them how LUCKY they were to be so attractive
-- brought up to believe that children are EXPECTED of them as part of their female identity
-- generally, through no fault of their own, lacking in the knowledge of WHAT they want, that is, little guidance.
They DO grow up, some sooner than later, and turn into normal, emotionally balanced, contributing women, wives, mothers, aunties and grandmas.
The mixed messages were too confusing at first and most had parents who cleared up confusion.