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To Those Who Wait to Conceive (bad news)
Crisis Magazine ^ | June 26, 2014 | MARK D. OSHINSKIE

Posted on 06/26/2014 3:33:09 PM PDT by NYer

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To: NYer

I would have loved to start a family already. However, I always had the notion that I should be financially comfortable before bringing another life into this world. After graduating college, I haven’t found anything resembling a career. I’m only 26, I suppose I have time.. But all I’m hearing is “tick, tick, tick”!


21 posted on 06/26/2014 5:03:17 PM PDT by same old song
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To: bicyclerepair

Yep. All those women who have chosen education and success over child rearing are just making sure that more of the next generation come from less educated and less successful families.

I don’t really get the point of it either. Making enough money to support yourself as a single person is not that hard. Why kill yourself trying to get ahead if you don’t have a family you need to support? Just to save up to buy a big empty house?


22 posted on 06/26/2014 5:10:25 PM PDT by Boogieman
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To: Boogieman
Yep. All those women who have chosen education and success over child rearing are just making sure that more of the next generation come from less educated and less successful families.

That makes no sense at all. Education raises your status. Work experience raises your status. A well educated couple having children later in life raises higher status children.

This article is propaganda. Like it or not, nowadays in the western world, having children young is considered lower class, while having children older is higher class.

And yes, educated, worldly people know that you can help nature along with proper diet, exercise and a healthy lifestyle. Normal women approaching or at 40 can have children, and society is better off for it.

23 posted on 06/26/2014 5:26:43 PM PDT by southern rock
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To: Boogieman

Good point.


24 posted on 06/26/2014 5:27:36 PM PDT by Age of Reason
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To: southern rock
Women should be married off young, be housewives and mothers, and the man should be the breadwinner.

And that's how it is.

25 posted on 06/26/2014 5:30:27 PM PDT by Age of Reason
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To: southern rock
The only status that matters is passing genes down to future generations. What impresses you personally does not matter. It's survival of the fittest that matters.

Right now, most third world people have the highest status, because they outbreed the industrialized world.

26 posted on 06/26/2014 5:32:57 PM PDT by Age of Reason
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To: Age of Reason
Right now, most third world people have the highest status, because they outbreed the industrialized world.

Which is precisely why they are the third world. Oh yes, please, let's breed ourselves into that way of life. Can't wait.

27 posted on 06/26/2014 5:36:26 PM PDT by southern rock
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To: Age of Reason
Women should be married off young, be housewives and mothers, and the man should be the breadwinner. And that's how it is.

And that is how it is for families that have sentenced themselves to blue collar, working class existences with little hope of getting out or moving up. Where does higher education for either parent fit into your prole fantasy?

28 posted on 06/26/2014 5:40:10 PM PDT by southern rock
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The best gift that my wife and I gave to my oldest children by having when we were younger was the many more years they got to have with their grandparents.


29 posted on 06/26/2014 5:44:07 PM PDT by Chesterbelloc
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To: NYer

The thief?

Contraception


30 posted on 06/26/2014 5:56:58 PM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: eddie willers

I think you are mistaken.


31 posted on 06/26/2014 5:57:57 PM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: NYer

just have unprotected sex with your spouse but both say you dont’ want a baby. you’ll have one in no time.


32 posted on 06/26/2014 5:58:24 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man ( Gone Galt; Not averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: NYer

not everyone should have kids. raising them right needs to be done well. not everyone ought to have them. half-assing it is the reson why we’re dealing with a lot of social problems now.


33 posted on 06/26/2014 6:00:05 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man ( Gone Galt; Not averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: NYer

I’ve also noticed that older women give birth to children who later become autistic.


34 posted on 06/26/2014 6:05:25 PM PDT by Coleus
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To: same old song

You’ve been on FR since you were 14?

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35 posted on 06/26/2014 6:09:16 PM PDT by Mears
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To: southern rock

Sounds like the opening scene of Idiocracy.


36 posted on 06/26/2014 6:09:27 PM PDT by FrdmLvr ("WE ARE ALL OSAMA, 0BAMA!" al-Qaeda terrorists who breached the American compound in Benghazi)
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To: NYer

True. So what do we do? Personally, I encourage any young people I tactfully can, to get married early and have lots of kids.


37 posted on 06/26/2014 6:09:48 PM PDT by St_Thomas_Aquinas ( Isaiah 22:22, Matthew 16:19, Revelation 3:7)
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To: NYer

In America, Asian and East Indian cultures value higher education and professional careers. I have noticed they often live in multi-generational households. They have kids before it’s too late, keep growing their careers, and the children are cared for by older relatives.


38 posted on 06/26/2014 6:12:25 PM PDT by informavoracious (Open your eyes, people!)
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To: southern rock
Like it or not, nowadays in the western world, having children young is considered lower class, while having children older is higher class.

I remember caring what other people thought about stuff like that until I was about 23. Then I figured things out for myself.

39 posted on 06/26/2014 6:14:02 PM PDT by St_Thomas_Aquinas ( Isaiah 22:22, Matthew 16:19, Revelation 3:7)
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To: Mears

Yes. Mom raised me well.. She’s been on since ‘98.


40 posted on 06/26/2014 6:25:44 PM PDT by same old song
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