The lusts that drive homosexuality are the result of a spiritual disorder. It’s no accident that Sodom was crawling with it. God destroyed Sodom to show how displeased He was with that stuff, but God then also sent His own Son to die on Calvary’s cross to show how intent He was on redeeming anyone who was willing to accept it — even people who had wallowed in homosexuality for years.
I certainly am not “changing to enable them” so what’s this “we” business Lone Ranger. But I am declaring the gospel, loud and proud. (Let him who boasts, boast in the Lord.)