Skip to comments.Nancy Lanza feared son, Adam, was ‘getting worse’; ‘he was burning himself with a lighter’
Posted on 12/16/2012 12:53:37 PM PST by jimbo123
Less than a week before her son would launch his horrifying attack on Sandy Hook Elementary School, gun-loving mom Nancy Lanza knew "she was losing him" and that "he was getting worse."
Adam, who the coroner's office said Sunday shot Nancy Lanza, 54, several times in the head before unleashing a nightmarish attack that killed 20 schoolchildren and six others Friday, was prone to hurting himself, the drinking buddy said.
"Nancy told me he was burning himself with a lighter. In the ankles or arms or something," he recalled of a conversation they had about a year ago. "It was like he was trying to feel something."
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Schizophrenia tends to manifest itself around age 18-20 and it can often come on quite suddenly. There was a case locally where a 17 year old cut up his grandfather with an axe, just a couple weeks after his parents started to notice changes in his behavior.
That's a little more than odd.
WHy would an anarchist want to feel something?
>> (this couple got divorced in 2009
Thought it was around 2006. Nonetheless, I’m wondering what the deal is with “daddy”.
Or are people speculating that he had that condition based on this barfly’s analysis.
Burning oneself sounds like a variation on ‘cutting’, which people do to lessen psychic pain.
Sounds like that crazy Joe Davola.
The young man was burning himself (if true. not too sure I believe of all these second hand stories about how mentally ill the son was since many speaking out hardly even knew him personally). He qualified for a full evaluation because he was harming himself. If you really want if you are desperate and lie and say threatened to kill himself so they can get some treatment.
And THAT is a crying shame!
The government condones removing the father, and with it, any semblence of boundaries and structure--equating it all as "abuse." The mom is free to treat Junior like the little "man of the house" which in itself is abusive. Mom gives the child what I call A.S.S. (adult spousal status) allowing him to call the shots in the home. She assassinates dad's character in front of Junior, creating massive loyalty conflicts ("if you love mommy you'll hate your dad"). When Junior, who is now confused, extremely angry and hateful, gets physically too strong to handle, she puts him on mind bending meds.
When dad finally gives up in sheer hopelessness, having spent tens of thousands in legal fees just to preserve his basic parental rights, and decides to move on, mom gets further enraged:
see my post #130
See my post #130
For every story of woe you can give me for a man I can give you two for a woman.
Most "single moms" don't have the "dad gene" aka the ability to put their boot up their kids backside. They'd rather be lenient and molly coddle them; especially if it means going against dad's wishes.
Not in this case .
The guy took off and got remarried within just over a year .
She was left alone to deal with the messy kid and even the other son ran off .
That is what happens in situations with a mentally ill kid who is dangerous and very hostile .
Everyone gets burned out and flee once they see a chance .
Dad had not seen the kid in over a year ! He ran which is normal with
Schizoid child .
They are never ending drain .
My on laws / relative has one but she is very
Stable and takes her meds because her Dad and mom
Are very strict and loving .
We watch her so they can vacation every few months .
You don’t think this lady needed a vacation from this kid but
There was no one to watch him !
I don’t doubt anything in your post. Thanks for bringing it to my attention.
I just happened to watch an old “Criminal Minds” episode over the weekend. It was from 2011, but was eerily similar to this recent shooting, with the bad guy (”unsub”) not feeling pain. also the outcast, loner, etc. I was thinking “if a dumb TV show can profile these guys, too bad we can’t do it in real life and get them help”:
Back at police HQ, the team presents its theory to the team: the original killer had a silent partner, someone so inconsequential in the high-school social scene that he would have never stood out. “This unsub was the outcast that the outcasts rejected,” Reid explains....
Later that night, the team finds Jerry has been beaten to death in the high school hallway. “This unsub doesn’t feel pain,” Reid theorizes, noting that the mystery man punched through a glass display case BEFORE savagely beating Jerry.
Hotch theorizes that the unsub never developed a sense of empathy because he has never felt pain. [Reid then explained some medical condition]...
So the unsub, already an outcast in high school, is super angry that he survived only to be shunned again...
CUT to the restaurant, where a bomb EXPLODES. Sure enough, Robert soon emerges to confront the special survivor clique that has gathered for a dinner.... Moments later, Emily, Hotch and Derek enter the restaurant to find Robert holding a gun to a woman’s head. “Before tonight, they didn’t know my name!” Robert rages....