If you regularly go to church on Sundays you are in the segment of Catholics who tend not to vote Democrat.
The cafeteria or Easter-Christmas Catholics are the ones who are easy pickings for Barack. And even a lot of them were consternated at Barack’s heavy handed reneging on his promise to respect Catholic conscience rights.
Those you describe have fallen for the lie of “social justice”, ie,
support this policy and you’re fulfilling your obligation of charity, without any personal sacrifice.