Btw, if a dude gets off on strangling womand and the woman is okay with it that is between them.
She was not okay with it.
Oh, and I am sure the diddling Priests did plenty of repenting..and kept on diddling. Do they get a pass because they repented?
The Sacrament of Penance is a magnificent gift from God. Its regenerative power is unmatched for those bearing heavy burdens. Given enough time and frequency of non-sacrilegious use it will unlock the shackles of sin as if they never existed and supply true freedom. Nothing is more enslaving than personal mortal sin.