Posted on 10/06/2014 4:48:11 PM PDT by marshmallow
It sure isn't that simple. It's your basic NO WIN.
A better way might be to simply see the son by himself at a neutral place like a restaurant, walk in the park, museum...or invite HIM on a short vacation or take HIM to dinner and a movie (an adventure movie).
The offers can be made to the son. This might keep the relationship intact AND not ruffle too many feathers.
Certainly it doesn't mean that they are never to come to your house, but on occasions when there is any possibility that their presence could lead to spiritual harm or confusion regarding Church teachings in the minds of others in attendance (especially children) then they should not be included in the gathering. Normalizing mortal sin in the minds of children is far more harmful than offending those who obstinately choose to ignore Church teaching.
Fr. Hardon: "To be the primary educators of their children for eternal life is not easy for parents. It never has been since the dawn of Christianity. But in todays world, intoxicated with its own pride, addicted to its own pleasures, indoctrinated in its own propaganda that only temporal life exists and eternal life is a mirage to become parents of eternal life demands heroism."
Thanks for the quote from Fr. Hardin. There’s a lot there to think about.
Did they send out surveys to get input from all the lay folk too?
No, what is happening here is novelty.
Yeah. E-mail too.
If the Catholic Church wanted to get input from its lay folk it could have done so before email was invented. But it didn’t.
I am not going to backed into accepting some kind of bogus democracy for the Church. I am opposed to that. I particularly deplore emotional popular movements lapping up foundation money, lobbying through the media and crowding toward the microphones.
But remember that both the Benedictines and the Franciscans were founded as communities for those NOT in Holy Orders. Lay people. The church hasn't always had every detail of its life run by a monarchial papacy and a baronial episcopacy.
Did that involvement include/affect doctrinal matters?
No.
I don’t know about you, but I will not welcome a complete stranger who happens to to be sodomizing my son “into my family”. I might shake their hand then show them the door, but they are not part of my family.
They "fully believed in the Church's teachings" yet thought nothing of corrupting their grandchildren? I wonder if these brainwashed chumps are friends of Cdl. Dolan.
The "curtain of secrecy" is slowing ripping apart.
Lay periti have always commented on doctrinal matters. They do not have a vote!!
So every Tom, Dick and Harry lay folk were included in the preparation of the Synod. A novelty.
He relegates God's Plan to "dream" status.
The "pastoral problems" clearly originate among clerics of his stripe -- those who pervert the Gospel.
I wonder which cardinals will be sharing their views at Muslim and Jewish synods. /s
But not, for that reason, un-Catholic.
Well, this is why one does not take one change alone to recognize the moving away from Traditional Catholic beliefs and customs. This change is just more evidence of the Modernist claws in the Church.
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