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Mormons in Mourning: Post Election Depression
A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman ^ | November 2, 2012 | Kathryn Skaggs

Posted on 12/29/2012 9:10:37 AM PST by greyfoxx39

From childhood it has been my nature to find that double rainbow in even the worst adversity I've experienced throughout my life, and like so many of you I've had my share. As an adult I am now well conditioned to find it immediately -- as I've learned that to do so I'm able to overcome a setback much quicker, press forward -- come what may. (Of note, this usually accompanies a very fast turn to Christ as part of the process.) But on occasion, life's disappointments refuse to allow such expediency and we are compelled to pause briefly -- rest on why that is -- and find the possible lessons to be learned, seemingly necessary.
So, today I want to pause from my normal, upbeat blogging style to acknowledge what I've been observing throughout my Mormon community since Mitt Romney's bid to become the first President of the United States failed: post election depression.

Like many of you hoping to celebrate the 2012 election results, I was ready to enthusiastically write that historic victory post, not only here, but also on the Washington Post:

Mitt Romney First Mormon President of the United States!

But alas, what many Mormons have been anticipating, praying for and some going so far as to fast for -- some believing it God's will -- were literally left devastated at the final election results! I know this because I've read what you think and heard what many of you are saying. And let me be quite honest here -- I've been somewhat taken back at the public displays of both anger and disappointment displayed by many members through the use of social media and on social networks -- causing me to wonder how future scripture would describe us as a people and what lessons our behaviors would teach future generations.

But please know, I'm not here to judge anyone -- I'm sincerely concerned by such outcry. Strange enough, I read an article a few days before the election suggesting that either way, a Romney win or defeat,
Mormons would not have much of a reaction . Boy did that lady have us wrong! I knew how excited we would all be if it were to have been a victory, but truly I had no idea the level of sadness and/or anger that I would witness by members I personally know and associate with. And this observation is not mine alone. I've receive a few emails from other members expressing this same concern -- which has ultimately driven this post.

I can't really say why, for sure, that my own immediate response turned to finding the positive for Mormonism, in general -- of which I wrote election night and
posted here, and then turned to give my response, as promised, whatever that was to be, to the Washington Post's On Faith Blog -- but somehow I was blessed to be given a view that enabled me to find a triple rainbow -- right away!

How grateful I am for that immediate blessing. Little did I know but that our little band of latter-day saints would collectively be so saddened by these election results. Let me just say, because I know if I don't I will be called out: but I do realize that for many of you it had little or nothing to do with the fact that Mitt Romney is a Mormon -- as I stand in that place -- but for many it was. And that's okay.

I'm not really sure why such extreme responses by so many members. I do realize that many believe this country is heading into some very dark days, and that by having Mitt Romney, a Republican and a Mormon, surely we could course correct this seeming downward spiral -- and with his loss such hopes have been dashed! I get this thought process and I'm sure there's much more that I'm not understanding -- or get -- but I'm still asking myself why? Why such sadness?

I found this quote by President Ezra Taft Benson responding to the popular Mormon belief that our Constitution would hang by a thread (which it likely is), and that the Elders of Israel would basically rise to save the day. I do have a concern that some of the sadness or disappointment being felt might possibly be connected to these thoughts, some feeling that Mitt Romney was the man for the job. And FYI, this 'prophecy' known as the
White Horse Prophecy, is not official doctrine of the Church.

"I have faith that the Constitution will be saved as prophesied by Joseph Smith. But it will not be saved in Washington. It will be saved by the citizens of this nation who love and cherish freedom. It will be saved by enlightened members of this Church -- men and women who will subscribe to and abide the principles of the Constitution" (Source: CHB 28-31)
So, according to President Benson, and I don't know what other leaders have said on this topic, but it seems to me that the answer to the Constitution problem will not be solved by one powerful person in government -- but individual members.

How that happens I can't say for sure, but I do believe that education and the preaching of the gospel will have a powerful influence on society as one-by-one individuals turn to God and choose to manage their lives according to His laws. And His laws are in harmony with the "principles of the Constitution".

As we reflect on the what now question and the where do we go from here question it begins to become more clear that the results of this election are that the gates to share the gospel have been blasted wide open and we've all got a lot of work ahead of us. And indeed it may not be too far fetched to suggest that the
lowering of the missionary age requirement, prompting a significant increase in new missionary applications, was the inspired work of our beloved watchmen on the tower -- knowing full well what is ahead.

Michael Otterson, who manages Church Public Affairs, globally, just published an excellent article over at On Faith, wherein he takes a look at:
What lies ahead for Mormons...

"More visibility is not necessarily the same as increased understanding. In reality, a presidential election campaign is probably the worst time to try to educate and inform, because politics by its nature is divisive and often shrill. Many people are ready to believe the worst if it comports with their political leanings. But with the heat and divisiveness of a political campaign behind us, thoughtful Mormons can now look to the possibility of having more serious discussions with others about our faith, and especially about how our theology translates into the way we live."

Isn't that a great point?

Before we move on though, you should know that you're not alone in feeling sad or depressed. Pretty much everyone I know who was hoping that Romney would win the election, and not just Mormons, are feeling pretty blue right now. From what I've observed, there's a whole lot of chocolate going on! ; ) I just thought it might be helpful to acknowledge it and maybe even share some feelings.


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To: Bikkuri

Same to you and yours..........I am going with, this will be a good year!
;-)


101 posted on 12/30/2012 2:16:23 PM PST by svcw (Why is one cell on another planet considered life, and in the womb it is not.)
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To: stuartcr

You are a delight...

However I must be modest, your responses are easy to follow. They are very much along the same line day in and day out and being void of much substance and usually not bearing on the subject of the given thread where you post them so they not only stick out but are easy to recall...

I have hopes at some point you will enlighten us upon this great insight and knowledge that you seem to think we who stand for what we believe lack...


102 posted on 12/30/2012 2:38:27 PM PST by ejonesie22 (8/30/10, the day Truth won.)
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To: ejonesie22

Will do...as soon as you are deemed worthy.

Keep up the good work, and please continue with your scathingly painful insights.

Happy New Year


103 posted on 12/30/2012 2:41:53 PM PST by stuartcr ("Everything happens as God wants it to, otherwise, things would be different.")
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To: greyfoxx39
>> Give us an example of the percentages of "self-proclaimed Christians" vs the "superior moral mormons" that you personally know, along with a description of the location in which you are finding these examples. Thanks. <<

Personally know? I'm in Illinois. Mormons are about 1% of the population here. The ones I've met are all pretty decent people. I can give you plenty of data showing the "average" Mormon adheres to morality better than the "average" Christian in America. This does not excuse their wacky church doctrines, it simply shows Catholics and Protestants need to practice what they preach. I've met plenty of Catholics and Protestants who could care less what their church teaches. There are a couple of Mormons who defy their church doctrines (Mitt Romney being the most obvious example when he was pro-abortion and pro-gay), but I've met far more Catholics and Protestants who claim to be "good Christians" and support crap like homo marriage.

Do you deny this data?

Mormon Statistics

SEXUAL ATTITUDES. A greater percentage of Latter-day Saints disapprove of premarital sex, extramarital sex, and homosexuality than any other religious group. 58 percent of the Latter-day Saints said that premarital sex is always wrong, compared with 34 percent of Protestants and 25 percent of Catholics. About three-fourths of Protestants and more than two-thirds of Catholics said that extramarital sex and homosexuality are always wrong, compared to 90 percent of Latter-day Saints. (See Teachings About Sexuality home page)

SUBSTANCE USE. LDS doctrine prohibits the use of alcohol, tobacco, and other addictive drugs. Among adults and adolescents, usage rates are considerably lower among Latter-day Saints than among other religious groups. Only 28 percent of adult Latter-day Saints say they drink alcohol, compared with 65 percent of Protestants, 85 percent of Catholics, and 86 percent of Jews. Fourteen percent say they smoke tobacco, compared with 36 percent of Protestants, 38 percent of Catholics, and 28 percent of Jews.

ABORTION. Jews are the most accepting of abortion, while Latter-day Saints are the least accepting. Less than one-fourth of Latter-day Saints favor abortion if the reasons are lack of money, being unmarried, or not desiring the child. The next-closest group is the Catholics, and more than one-third of them favor abortion in the above-stated circumstances. Sixty-seven percent of Latter-day Saints favor abortion if the fetus is deformed, compared with 74 percent of Catholics and 96 percent of Jews. Almost 90 percent of Latter-day Saints favor abortion if the health of the mother is endangered by the pregnancy. This percentage is similar to most other religious groups, although Jews and those with no religion have percentages of 97 and 95, respectively.

104 posted on 12/30/2012 5:06:22 PM PST by BillyBoy ( Impeach Obama? Yes We Can!)
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To: stuartcr
Why?

Uh...

...because 'GREG' sounds like a 'him' and a 'he' to me?

105 posted on 12/30/2012 7:17:25 PM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: BillyBoy
I can give you plenty of data showing the "average" Mormon adheres to morality better than the "average" Christian in America.

Let me go out on a limb and predict that MORE data points will be coming your direction soon...

106 posted on 12/30/2012 7:19:28 PM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: BillyBoy
Only 28 percent of adult Latter-day Saints say they drink alcohol...

Here is one of the 72% that claimed he DIDN'T...

http://www.ldsmag.com/blogs/editors-blogs/thoughts-on-senator-crapo-drunk-driving-and-critics-of-mormonism

http://www.google.com/search?q=crapo+drunk&sourceid=ie7&rls=com.microsoft:en-us:IE-Address&ie=&oe=&rlz=1I7ADRA_enUS475

107 posted on 12/30/2012 7:24:31 PM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Elsie

Your boys won again...Heaven in Indiana! That 101 yard touchdown return was fab....

Now tonight RGlll is doing it to Dallas. Love it when a conservative is at the helm!


108 posted on 12/30/2012 7:56:35 PM PST by Utah Binger (Southern Utah where the world comes to see America)
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To: Elsie

Ok thanks. Sometimes I don’t know what you’re talking about.


109 posted on 12/31/2012 3:55:21 AM PST by stuartcr ("Everything happens as God wants it to, otherwise, things would be different.")
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To: Elsie

Ok thanks. Sometimes I don’t know what you’re talking about.


110 posted on 12/31/2012 3:55:42 AM PST by stuartcr ("Everything happens as God wants it to, otherwise, things would be different.")
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To: stuartcr
Sometimes I don’t know what you’re talking about.

Not to worry; for sometimes I re-read what I typed a day earlier and have no idea either!

111 posted on 12/31/2012 7:13:46 AM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Elsie

nice


112 posted on 12/31/2012 7:18:47 AM PST by stuartcr ("Everything happens as God wants it to, otherwise, things would be different.")
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To: Utah Binger
That 101 yard touchdown return was fab....

And I MISSED it!

The wifey and I were watching on the big screen downstairs, when I came upstairs to get on the computer. You KNOW how time flies when yer on FR, and I had failed to turn on the tv up here until that play had passed me by.

Them boys are tough - rough and play for keeps in the big leagues, but I really enjoyed seeing grown men hugging the coach, especially from the opposing team; giving the love to Chuck upon his return to the game.

May he stay in remission.

113 posted on 12/31/2012 7:19:43 AM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: stuartcr
("Everything happens as God wants it to, otherwise, things would be different.")

Likewise...

TIME is Mother Nature's way of making sure that everything doesn't happen at once.

114 posted on 12/31/2012 7:21:16 AM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Elsie

true dat


115 posted on 12/31/2012 7:30:54 AM PST by stuartcr ("Everything happens as God wants it to, otherwise, things would be different.")
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To: BillyBoy; Jim Robinson
I can give you plenty of data showing the "average" Mormon adheres to morality better than the "average" Christian in America.

How many pentecostal/evangelical Christians have you "met"? Your source for the above claim is (surprise) a mormon website. I suggest that you do some checking around and present an unbiased Christian/mormon comparison of "being moral".

I find it hilarious that mormonism defenders sooner or later resort to bashing Christians on FR and also claim mormon superiority over Christians.

116 posted on 12/31/2012 9:35:49 AM PST by greyfoxx39 (Romney's gift to the country....Boehner bowing to Obama while kicking the Tea Party.)
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To: greyfoxx39
>> How many pentecostal/evangelical Christians have you "met"? <<

I said Christians as a WHOLE, not "pentecostal/evangelical Christians". What is it with the "born again" crowd on FR thinking THEY speak for all "Christians" in the world? They're actually a small minority of Christians in America, and an even smaller percentage worldwide.

>> I find it hilarious that mormonism defenders sooner or later resort to bashing Christians on FR <<

I am a Christian, your post makes as much sense as saying "I see the defenders of women on FR sooner or later resort to bashing bashing men". You can scream "Mormon defender" at me all you want, I've said Mormonism is a wacko cult about 20 times so I'm pretty sure the Mormons wouldn't want to have me as their defender. All I mentioned is there's far more Christians who fail to practice what they preach than Mormons. If you think that's "Christian bashing" as a whole, take it up with "Christians" like Bill Clinton, Al Gore, and Jimmy Carter. I'm not going to pretend the fact they're self-described "practicing Christians" makes them morally superior to Mormons. There's lots of phony Christians in America, which you "born again" types evidently ignore think you think nobody is "Christian" but yourselves. and also claim mormon superiority over Christians.

117 posted on 12/31/2012 10:33:24 AM PST by BillyBoy ( Impeach Obama? Yes We Can!)
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To: Elsie
>> Doncha wish that 'good behaviour' was the criteria for getting into heaven!! <<

It is a major component of the criteria for getting into heaven for Catholic and Orthodox Christians, who make up the majority of Christians in the world. (roughly 1.4 billion Catholic & Orthodox, vs. 600 million protestants, and the "evangelical" crowd is only a small percentage within those protestants)

119 posted on 12/31/2012 10:45:10 AM PST by BillyBoy ( Impeach Obama? Yes We Can!)
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To: BillyBoy; Jim Robinson
I said Christians as a WHOLE, not "pentecostal/evangelical Christians".

Oh...so the mormons who are less than 3% of the population are touted as being morally superior over ALL Christians while at the same time the Pentecostal/Evangelicals are NOT treated as a sub group of the Christians that are being bashed.

They're actually a small minority of Christians in America, and an even smaller percentage worldwide.

I see...the minimal mormon minority is "special" but a minority of Christians who lead their lives in a moral manner are lumped in with the liberals in order to give a false picture. Cherry pick much?

BTW, the Pentecostal group is growing at a much faster rate than is the mormon, and the Pentecostals don't fudge their numbers by counting babies, inactives and inactives under the age of 110 as do the mormons. But I guess "lyin for the lord" about numbers is "morally superior", right?

This comment by you, "There's lots of phony Christians in America, which you "born again" types evidently ignore think you think nobody is "Christian" but yourselves. is waving a red flag on this Pro-God, Pro Christian website. We consider many, many Catholics, Protestants and non-affiliateds Christian, that is the ones who do not believe that "man may become god" and that "Jesus had to work His way up through manmade rituals.

120 posted on 12/31/2012 11:25:18 AM PST by greyfoxx39 (Romney's gift to the country....Boehner bowing to Obama while kicking the Tea Party.)
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